@WillA763@rodhilton I agree that Trump supporters are overwhelmingly to blame for Trump’s chances, and that the gap between my idea of an ideal world and theirs is monstrous.
I do, however, lay some blame at the feet of the ones who won’t vote Harris because they believe they are preserving their good moral character while claiming they are allies for the marginalized groups who will be in the crosshairs under Trump.
@WillA763@rodhilton OP is talking about progressives/leftists who refuse to vote for Harris, thus risking Trump’s win. It’s not about Trump supporters.
@Bwasscher @ankostis@libretooth.gr @skykiss Dude is a “we hateses the West so very much and loveses their enemies, yes we do” kind of troll and a scroll through their posts will reveal that. Anyone rocking up to a post like this with an entrance like that is just trying to stir up shit, anyways. Best to block and move on.
@hgfernan@RickiTarr It…it would probably literally be faster to walk or jog that, when you factor in the time it would take to load, accelerate, decelerate, and unload.
@NeonPurpleStar@MikeDunnAuthor@TobiWanKenobi I figure they’re basically one of the common kinds of trolls that operate in leftwing spaces. Comes with the territory, but at least there’s blocklists.
So I just finished my first 5k (apparently actually almost 6k).
I have only ever run on treadmills before, and this was trail running. Longest I’ve ever run in my life is 9 km.
If you’ve ever seen my body type, throw words like “ectomorph” or “endomorph” out the window: my proper classification is “brick with legs”.
I gasped and panted through the entire thing, got outpaced by the 10k runners on their second lap, and finished dead last. I think I was told “a quarter mile left!” three times.
My goal was to finish the race at all, and I -did-, while never walking. And I’m down 45 pounds from January and no longer prediabetic.
I’m an abysmal runner, and probably always will be; my favorite exercise is weight lifting, not so much cardio.
So despite the race turning out to be way more physically challenging for me than I expected, what I’m focusing on is that I’m doing way better than old me.
It helps that people were so encouraging and nice, even as I was dying.
@FlashMobOfOne@geekysteven Especially since an honest answer involves about sixteen pages of backstory to understand, and at its core is “because I can’t feel good about myself unless someone is below me”.
@ryanhoulihan When they’re asking that question, they’re often not asking about the safety of the equipment, but rather how safe you are amongst many strangers.
@JustinMac84@goatsarah Bigotry is based in a lack of empathy paired with a background hum of discrimination as the person moves through society, and part of that discrimination is a failure to recognize what IS discrimination. It rarely keeps to its own little box.
You are approaching this from an active and aware kind of hatred perspective - “has it in for” - which is not how many bigots act; they defend themselves as not -ist all the time.
@JustinMac84@goatsarah To be transphobic, one must lack the ability or willingness to extend empathy to those whose lives are unlike one’s own, and to treat them as full and complete human beings.
This failure is mirrored in misogyny, whether the person recognizes it as such or not. “Treating them right”, when you can’t understand how THEY wish to be treated, is merely “commit no obvious violence towards them”, but it is not “respect their personhood”.
@jacklaridian@Serenus No. Reread their first post, as it accurately describes the issue. And no, critiquing someone’s decision to speak and on what subject and to whom, is not tone policing.
@PaulaToThePeople I like to think of gender as like clothing: there are people who have VERY strong opinions about what socks to pair with what pants, how to properly tie an ascot, etc., and there are people who know what pieces of clothing go together to make a tuxedo and will deliberately swap one out to make a statement, and there are those who are Donald Ducking it half the time.
I don’t think we’ll ever lose gender, but I do hope we can get to a point where all three
@PaulaToThePeople I think you’re treating this as a matter of possibility, and so seeing this as a rejection of the work you/people around you did, while I’m treating this as a matter of probability and the safety and happiness of everyone involved.
It’s great it worked out for you. There are many people whose circumstances are the same and had much worse outcomes.
I’d rather have many diverse, positive, and personal role models for people to have growing up than not.
I don’t know what I’m doing, either.I do a fair amount of boosting which, for me, means “this post has value”, so not necessarily that I agree with it.Following is open, no worries if you dip in and dip out. I tend to wait to follow until I’ve interacted with you a bit first.