If this were true there would be some court cases to prove it. Surely there is ONE man who would be willing to confess to the terrible embarrassment of being raped by a woman!
I was in my early 20s. I'd been hanging out with this "lesbian" chick for a while. I knew her since childhood. She gets a thing for me despite being a lesbian. We go to her place. Get naked. Get on bed. Start fucking around. Then her 300lbs bi-sexual girlfriend walks in and wants me to fuck her too. Starts touch my dick, etc. Instantly limp. I ended up leaving.
@p@LaylaAlexandrovna@PonyPanda one of my friends in college got raped by a woman. I followed his roommate back to their dorm room so he could grab a hoodie. Roommate opened the door and there was our friend, pants around his ankles, with the town trailer hitch riding him like a broke-down winnebago. He was so drunk, he rolled his eyes at us like "Help me" but his roomie just laughed and grabbed the hoodie, the whore rapist laughed and rode our friend harder, and I just stood there in shocked silence until my friend slammed the door and we left him there.
The next day, we were telling him "So ol' Trailer Hitch got a hold of you," and he didn't even remember, tried to deny it. But she was a loudmouth and stole a pair of his underwear on the way out, so she had proof. Being a Trailer Hitch, she kept trying to hook up with him ever after, and (far too late) we all protected him from her until college was over.
Of course, back in my day, blaming the victim was the style at the time. So if a man got raped by some over-sized floozy, why we figured it was his own fault for getting so drunk and leaving his door unlocked. Pepperidge Farms remembers
@graf@Humpleupagus@mischievoustomato@PonyPanda@p@LaylaAlexandrovna Some drunk obese old hag tried to get me back when I was 26. I escaped because I had a feeling she'd try something, so I locked the door to the room I was sleeping in before going to bed. Woke up to the hog pounding on my door trying to get in. She eventually gave up.
@LostInCalifornia@Grandtheftautism I guess I had blocked this pos but honestly, the level of idiocy among online men is really disgusting.
Today I was talking to a guy I know from the cafe and it turns out he's like the second guy I've told about ascribing to radfemism and he didn't freak out! So there are still some half assed guys out there - of course he's old so that makes a difference too.
A lot of these younger men are so wacked out from porn and inceldom. I guess? What else is possibly making them so horrifying?
It’s not like I have eyes, ears, been lied to to my face. Not like I have brothers, friends, acquaintances, lovers, a father, various other people in my life.
Not like I know men don’t like to be called out of their bullshit…..
@LostInCalifornia@LaylaAlexandrovna you just don't like the idea of sharing your sense of victim hood with a pack of men. I get it. You've been cruising on victimhood for quite a while now, wrapping it around you like a cozy blanket, and you can't stand the idea that a woman could treat a man as badly as some men treat women. Because that strips the mantle of martyrdom right off your shoulders and contradicts your world view, you refuse to believe it. If you did believe it, you'd have to change your attitude towards men, and you will never do that.
@LostInCalifornia@LaylaAlexandrovna and how many men have you actually experienced, and how many of those have you actually liked and respected? Damn few, if you're posting this crap on Spinster and naming every woman a victim and every man a liar.
You are not a man. You have no idea how men's bodies work. Contrary to the old wives' tales you pass around on Spinster, it's perfectly possible for a man to be passed out cold and still have an erection. It happens all the time. Believe what ever you want, I'm just glad you eschew men now because you clearly have no liking or understanding of them, so you're doing the world a favor by staying away from them. God help him if you ever have a son.
@LostInCalifornia@LaylaAlexandrovna dead wrong, lady. Some men get hard as rocks when they're drunk. Not all men are the same no matter how much you want to believe they are.
I'm not one of the young ones. My wife is trad af too. So I never had these issues.
But from my perspective, women like her are basically attempting to reject their own womanhood, but obfuscate their rejection by calling it womanhood. That's why they have to hate men — they erroneously believe that being a woman is only defined by how much they oppose men.
If they accepted their womanhood, they would love men and understand that the relationship between the sexes is a very ancient and wonderful phenomenon.
@Humpleupagus@LaylaAlexandrovna@LostInCalifornia I have to admit, I didn't understand why you younger guys gad so much trouble with women. Now I do. What percentage of young women are like this, in your opinion? JFC
That account did the same thing regarding the holohoax. No idea what these people are going to do once things spill over into real life. It's not possible to stop or block reality.
This is why republics tend to fall. That fold in on themselves conceptually until they get so divorced from reality that the foundation crumbles. Our information infrastructure only sped up the process in our modern era.
Female cute is looks, boobs and that wild, yet well-arranged hairdo, and none of that "I'm telling you something in the abstract and you just have to trust me". That's his job, making promises that he may or may not be able to keep.
Guys... I don't want to share this out of the up most respect I have for @graf and the sanctity of poast. But these predators must be brought to justice.
So please I have here a photo of that awful woman. Keep on the look out for the woman that caused our boy a very traumatic experience.
> From what I can tell, OPs position is it can't be rape if the man got hard. If so, how does she explain away many females experiencing rape orgasm?
No idea, she doesn't seem to wanna talk to people about it, but that is an interesting point. Either way, it should be obvious that anything every male does in his sleep every night is probably involuntary.
> Simply put, if the principle is that being physically aroused does not establish consent, then the same principle should apply to men.
You can't use logic on someone like that, I think.
He came back to our room the next morning mortified. He said he was at the party .. drinking etc…. Woke up full boner .. confused.. but full chub. Looked up and a fat chick was on top riding him like a cowgirl on the run. He was disgusted and tried to stop it but was to drunk.
Funny tid-bit: When he awoke in the morning she was gone but he had shit on the tips of his fingers.. he remembered it was from when he tried to get her off him by grabbing her ass… an ass that had poop in the cheeks.
@MaleGoddess@Humpleupagus@LaylaAlexandrovna@PonyPanda@mischievoustomato@p women cant wrap their tiny brains around the fact that a male doesnt have to overpower to not consent to something like that. as evidenced with OP, she ignored legitimate experiences because "if a male gets hard its consent" (in my experience I woke up because she was frustrated she couldn't get me hard while I was passed out drunk) and thats just really not the case. it's because of tiny woman brain syndrome the behavior goes by excused by other tiny brained women. I can understand the grey area of consent/non-consent when it comes to the other party being inebriated but I'd never seen this woman in my life before or since. I know her name was Katie and that she was what I would consider to be obese and had tattoos. that's all I remember. why didn't I report it? because it's a woman being creepy doing weird woman shit because she's lonely or whatever maybe, I don't know but the experience hasn't impacted me much. but that doesn't mean that it's not rape
My argument is it's either all rape, or none of it is rape.
If I can be too drunk to stand, and a girl disrobes me and has sex with me, that's either rape or not rape. If it's not rape, then me banging out chicks that got too drunk isn't rape either.
One time in Germany, I told my buddies I was leaving because I was too drunk. I started to leave, but I only made it halfway to the door and grabbed a pillar and hugged that bitch because I was not walking straight. I don't know how long I was there, but some chick pulled me away from the pillar, and I told her that I was too drunk to walk, so she threw my arm over her shoulder and walked me out of the place, down the street, I don't even remember. Next thing I know, I'm in a bed, and she's pulling off my pants. I couldn't even fight it. She went ahead and rode me and I don't even remember if I finished or not. I woke up, all disoriented, not knowing where I was, and I had to wake her up to get her to call me a cab because I didn't have a cell phone. She didn't look horrible either, like a 6 or low 7. Not overweight. Oh, what woke me up was her kid poking my feet. She had like a 4 year old kid in her apartment. I was all trying to get dressed under the covers because yeah, that's not something I'd ever woken up to. It was weird because I probably would have consented to sex with her if I were more sober, it wasn't like she needed to take advantage of me. No clue what her motivation was. Never saw her again.
Plus, most rape isn't some violent rapist grabbing a chick at the park or breaking into her home. It's spouses, boyfriends, known acquaintances, and/or being shitfaced or passed out drunk. So by all normal standards, having a chick walk you to a room and then put your dick in her mouth while you're piss drunk is 100% rape.
> More people need to learn to shitpost from mobile devices
I already do shitpost from a DevTerm. The RISC-V one has some obscene battery life, I think I will default to that next time I have to hit the road, but the device does lack sufficient horsepower to run a reasonably current browser. Recent advances in the ssh interface to FSE, however, might make a browser completely unnecessary.
When I was 14 I moved into supported accommodation because my family home waa messed up. The setup is a block of flats with support staff and coming in and running programs with kids. One of the tenants was a 19-year-old girl that I knew from a previous hospital admission. She wasn't what I would call attractive and I didn't go out of my way to be friendly with her. She has a pet name for me that I hated as well.
One night she invited herself over to "watch DVDs" and she brought booze and offered me some. I really didn't like alcohol at that age so I refused and just watched shitty movies with her. Then when she was drunk she started flashing me and groping me until she forced herself on me on the couch. It was disgusting and I felt ashamed and to this day, the name she gave me disturbs me.
She left the program two months later. The whole time I felt withdrawn and awkward. I didn't attend programs because I didn't want to see her and I was at risk of being evicted and I seriously just considered being a hermit in my apartment until I got kicked out and living with my dysfunctional family again.
It was only when I found out after a month she'd be moving out soon that I started attending programs again.
@p@LaylaAlexandrovna can you make sure she see this? She blocked me for posting a picture of a Nazi soldier kissing a female Red Army soldier. blocked by layla.png
> a male doesnt have to overpower to not consent to something like that.
Well, plus, you clock a fat chick and then the cops ask you what happened and you say "Officer...it was self-defense, she was trying to sexually assault me." and you're getting hauled off, not her.
> why didn't I report it?
I think the presumption that the cops need to be involved, that some third party should have authority over everything or it's not real, is some kind of modern disease. "I cannot make you do what I want, so I will call the police and they will force you." So you've got New York making it illegal for a landlord to misgender you, insane shit like that. This whole "IF IT WAS REAL, THEN WHY DIDN'T YOU CALL THE POLICE" shit is a facet of that. This was an interesting read: http://righteousmind.com/where-microaggressions-really-come-from/ . The idea in the paper he's discussing (attached) is that societies' moral cultures fall into three categories: "A Culture of Honor. Honor is a kind of status attached to physical bravery and the unwillingness to be dominated by anyone.", "A Culture of Dignity. [...] Rather than honor, a status based primarily on public opinion, people are said to have dignity, a kind of inherent worth that cannot be alienated by others.", and finally "A Culture of Victimhood. [...] A culture of victimhood is one characterized by concern with status and sensitivity to slight combined with a heavy reliance on third parties. [...] Domination is the main form of deviance, and victimization a way of attracting sympathy, so rather than emphasize either their strength or inner worth, the aggrieved emphasize their oppression and social marginalization." The paper argues that we're a "dignity" culture and slipping into a "victimhood" culture with the upcoming generation, and that was written about ten years ago (it's noted that the mindset is prevalent in college campuses), so we're there, those people are all (chonologically) adults.
I think a highly mobile society is partly to blame for the reliance on public law. A lot of people don't have historical ties to the communities in which they live, so the means for maintaining social order tends to shift towards what is most impersonal, public law.
I still live in a town that still has some generational families, and where I have a lot of extended family, including second and third cousins. There's a lot of deep lore, but there's also a lot of love. Most of my clients have some connection to my family through some line of relationships, and this make the relationship more than merely professional. They're not just people who walk through your door and pay money. They're story is in part my story and there's some force there that wants to maintain the "diginity" of that story. Both sides humanize each other and treat each other with respect.
On the otherhand, those who don't have that common history tend to treat me as some atomized cog that they has to do their bidding because I'm being paid. It's often, though not always, very cold and impersonal.
It's actually caused me to be somewhat xenophobic, but not based on race or ethnicity, but on whether the person is a "local."
And I'm not saying it's always the case that a "new comer" is cold or unfriendly. Rather, that there is something very different when you share a history with another. That alone helps to maintain social order to a large extent through the dignifying of that history.
> A lot of people don't have historical ties to the communities in which they live, so the means for maintaining social order tends to shift towards what is most impersonal, public law.
There's also less incentive.
> That alone helps to maintain social order to a large extent
Yeah, prisoner's dilemma: what do you play if the game isn't iterated?
It is not only social mobility but the intentional breakdown of cultural ties. 15 or so years ago there were a lot of articles about how globalism is incompatible with monoculture. Nowadays you have people living next to each other for decades and culturally they might as well be living on different planets. There is no grassroots shared culture anymore especially in the regional and national level where Marvel corporate slop is supposed to substitute as one.
> I would absolutely buy one of those if it could use poast and matrix but alas
Well, the A06 and the CM4 can. Just the RISC-V one is a little more experimental, but it's a single-core, 1GHz, 1GB RAM board. The A06 is 6-core (4x1.4GHz A-52, 2x1.8GHz A-72), 4GB RAM, it runs a browser fine.