@LostInCalifornia @LaylaAlexandrovna you just don't like the idea of sharing your sense of victim hood with a pack of men. I get it. You've been cruising on victimhood for quite a while now, wrapping it around you like a cozy blanket, and you can't stand the idea that a woman could treat a man as badly as some men treat women. Because that strips the mantle of martyrdom right off your shoulders and contradicts your world view, you refuse to believe it. If you did believe it, you'd have to change your attitude towards men, and you will never do that.