@MaleGoddess @Humpleupagus @LaylaAlexandrovna @PonyPanda @mischievoustomato @p women cant wrap their tiny brains around the fact that a male doesnt have to overpower to not consent to something like that. as evidenced with OP, she ignored legitimate experiences because "if a male gets hard its consent" (in my experience I woke up because she was frustrated she couldn't get me hard while I was passed out drunk) and thats just really not the case. it's because of tiny woman brain syndrome the behavior goes by excused by other tiny brained women. I can understand the grey area of consent/non-consent when it comes to the other party being inebriated but I'd never seen this woman in my life before or since. I know her name was Katie and that she was what I would consider to be obese and had tattoos. that's all I remember. why didn't I report it? because it's a woman being creepy doing weird woman shit because she's lonely or whatever maybe, I don't know but the experience hasn't impacted me much. but that doesn't mean that it's not rape