@so_treu many many years ago during one of the penny arcade blowups (!!!) it finally clicked for me that people who’ve had to put up with some kind of shit often internalize the idea that they are A Shit Receiver, fundamentally distinct from Shit Givers, and any suggestion that reality is somewhat more complicated is an assault on their lived experience…
“But I can’t be X, I went through Y” is a hell of a drug