“I have a lot of problems with social anxiety—“
“REALLY? It doesn’t seem like it at all!”
“uh. Thanks. I think.”
I guess it’s only a problem if troubles or inconveniences anyone *else*. If I’m miserable? Living in a tunnel of fear? Not relevant, I suppose.
Listen, I know people say this to be nice, supportive even. Being extroverted is more socially correct so it’s meant often as a compliment. But, it also feels like minimization.