@LadyMont@kfaythe87@LaylaAlexandrovna The "porn addiction" myth is one created to victimize men. All research shows paraphilias are a real thing, not caused by porn, have existed for a long time, don't go away and that they are much more common in men. I'm seeing a bunch of stupid men and women claiming that men who engage in problematic and/or deviant sexual behavior are "victims of pornography". The most stupid statement I've ever seen is "porn causes male homosexuality" these people are not living in reality
@FemaleIsNotAFeeling I was writing a long post but to sum it up it was when I first read about radical feminism in adolescence that I was introduced to gender criticism, after doing an internet search for feminism and going through the wikipedia pages of different strands of feminism. Before that I was a kid, never reflected on that and I thought gender was synonym with sex. I remember liking/relating to the things said in the radfem page much more than I did in the others. "Oh this makes sense". Then I never thought of it for a while but I think not long after I came across a video of Magdalen Berns and this was when I started reflecting about the subject of gender and femaleness
In the comment section, most people agreed, narrated their own experiences with male surgeons being careless and they were praising such men for being "fun". A woman said "As a surgeon assistant, that's why I prefer to work with men, they are more lighter and laid-back people".
This is just an example of a phenomenon I see everywhere: People forever rather invert the values, our ideas of whats good and bad, to keep upholding male supremacy, over ever criticizing men and praise women
@Piss_Ant I don't give a fuck. Men rather watch porn or hire prostitutes than have intimate sex with someone, men fuck all kinds of things, men get off from "fucking" somebody, sex dolls are just the natural next step. A sexual object is actually what they have always wanted. Better to have them raping plastic than living things and better to have them ejaculating inside plastic then impregnating a woman and reproducing
@LostInCalifornia I dont think misandry is a thing. I think third gender/trans gay men seek to disassociate themselves from other men as much as other men refuse to accept them as males and I dont think this is due to "homophobia" at all. I think that claiming it is is another attempt to divert us from recognizing it is actually rooted in misogyny
@LostInCalifornia "Of course, acknowledging the existence of homosexuality would shatter the illusion that the heterosexual pairing family is the only possible familial structure"
Children can only be made through heterosexual sex. If a homosexual couple is raising children, then they are raising someone elses children.
The third gender thing is more much related to misogyny than "homophobia" IMHO. Homosexual behavior is widespread in most societies that have "third" genders.
@LostInCalifornia@SomaliRose "Misogyny is at the bottom of homophobia, ie “he’s a pansy / pussy” = he’s effeminate."
I think that nowadays yes, but then, the discrimination isnt against homosexuality itself, but against effeminacy, especially in males. A masculine man that engages in homosexual behavior wouldnt be discriminated against under this basis.
I think that the problem lies when people see/categorize these men as a third thing instead of as a subtype of a men, which is what they are
Men sometimes call all males they dislike as "non-man". For instance there are times when they claim a pedophile, a rapist, etc isn't a "man" but "something else" in order to disassociate themselves from them and then they categorize society as being composed by "men" (meaning masculine men who behave in certain ways) and non-men (meaning everyone else). I think in ancient greece for instance, there were only men and "non-men" people. The non-men people were women, slaves, children, etc
@Mynona He was raised as parents typically raise girls. He was told his entire childhood he was a girl and he was pushed to play with dolls, have certain mannerisms etc. My question to you: If this isnt enough environmental influence to alter someone then please, tell me what is! What makes a man a gay then?
Why are men evil?
>Because of patriarchy >Why did patriarchy come into place in the first place?
Because men are evil and were born evil. They are innately defected. 90% of sexual offenses are committed by men and you wanna tell me this difference in numbers between men and women are due to, idk, women being "raised better"? Women ARE better
@Mynona You're denying all scientific evidence pointing to biology (simply because you dont feel it is true or want it to be true) without providing none to defend your point view. I'm done
@Mynona "And where's "evidence" that being "raised as a girl" (whatever that means) makes someone a girl and makes them forget that they were born a boy and makes them forget that their dick was burned and cut off? "
You're the one making the point it does without evidence. Dont you believe women most women played with dolls as children, are heterossexual, etc because they were raised to do all that? He didnt "forget" he is a boy, he didn't know. His dick was cut off as a baby soon after he was born.
@Mynona Well if you can show me evidence that paraphilias in men are 100% caused by environment, are curable and explain all the evidence to the contrary than ok but I dont think you can because there isnt evidence of this. The John Money experiment conservatives/radfems talk about is evidence men are born with at least a high predisposition to be defected. A boy had his dick cut off, was raised as a girl and yet grew up to be a hererosexual man identified man. If cutting a babys dick off, administering estrogen and raising as girl wasnt enough to make him feel a girl, turn him into gay, AGP etc than I dont think environment can exert that much influence on certain features in men.
@Mynona Even if it has a learning component, which is questionable, there is definitely a stronger biological one too
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RadLolaPart of me is against "transition" but when I read stories about womens whose husbands are AGPs, I question whether or not transition (but not legal transition) should be allowed. The more we discriminate AGPs and prohibit transition, the more these men are gonna marry women, have children and then destroy these womens and childrens lives at some point. Perharps we should let them transition and let natural selection take its course. Scientists should study why these errors (AGP and homosexual transsexualism) occur in the first place
@Mynona Because neither AGP or homosexual transsexualism is attraction to or liking of the color pink or flowers per se (which are culturally associated to women in the west). If shaving your entire head was associated to women, trannies would shave their entire heads. Having a shaved head would be part of AGPs erotic fantasy of being women and thus contribute to their arousal
@Humpleupagus@ghostprototype Your self hating wife is never gonna be able to prevent you from slurping tranny cock on the downlow. The whole appeal to you all, despite you all actively trying to deny it and pretend youre just joking sometimes, is the dick and the very fact it is a man, but with an artificial "feminine" look. She has only two routes left: Be in denial about her husband being a grotesque joke of a human being and stay with him or face it up that all men are subhuman and never touch a male again