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FemaleIsNotAFeeling (femaleisnotafeeling@spinster.xyz)'s status on Tuesday, 30-Sep-2025 01:16:49 JST FemaleIsNotAFeeling
JK Rowling brilliantly responds to Emma Watson's recent comments:
"I'm seeing quite a bit of comment about this, so I want to make a couple of points.
I'm not owed eternal agreement from any actor who once played a character I created. The idea is as ludicrous as me checking with the boss I had when I was twenty-one for what opinions I should hold these days.
Emma Watson and her co-stars have every right to embrace gender identity ideology. Such beliefs are legally protected, and I wouldn't want to see any of them threatened with loss of work, or violence, or death, because of them.
However, Emma and Dan in particular have both made it clear over the last few years that they think our former professional association gives them a particular right - nay, obligation - to critique me and my views in public. Years after they finished acting in Potter, they continue to assume the role of de facto spokespeople for the world I created.
When you've known people since they were ten years old it's hard to shake a certain protectiveness. Until quite recently, I hadn't managed to throw off the memory of children who needed to be gently coaxed through their dialogue in a big scary film studio. For the past few years, I've repeatedly declined invitations from journalists to comment on Emma specifically, most notably on the Witch Trials of JK Rowling. Ironically, I told the producers that I didn't want her to be hounded as the result of anything I said.
The television presenter in the attached clip highlights Emma's 'all witches' speech, and in truth, that was a turning point for me, but it had a postscript that hurt far more than the speech itself. Emma asked someone to pass on a handwritten note from her to me, which contained the single sentence 'I'm so sorry for what you're going through' (she has my phone number). This was back when the death, rape and torture threats against me were at their peak, at a time when my personal security measures had had to be tightened considerably and I was constantly worried for my family's safety. Emma had just publicly poured more petrol on the flames, yet thought a one line expression of concern from her would reassure me of her fundamental sympathy and kindness.
Like other people who've never experienced adult life uncushioned by wealth and fame, Emma has so little experience of real life she's ignorant of how ignorant she is. She'll never need a homeless shelter. She's never going to be placed on a mixed sex public hospital ward. I'd be astounded if she's been in a high street changing room since childhood. Her 'public bathroom' is single occupancy and comes with a security man standing guard outside the door. Has she had to strip off in a newly mixed-sex changing room at a council-run swimming pool? Is she ever likely to need a state-run rape crisis centre that refuses to guarantee an all-female service? To find herself sharing a prison cell with a male rapist who's identified into the women's prison?
I wasn't a multimillionaire at fourteen. I lived in poverty while writing the book that made Emma famous. I therefore understand from my own life experience what the trashing of women's rights in which Emma has so enthusiastically participated means to women and girls without her privileges.
The greatest irony here is that, had Emma not decided in her most recent interview to declare that she loves and treasures me - a change of tack I suspect she's adopted because she's noticed full-throated condemnation of me is no longer quite as fashionable as it was - I might never have been this honest.
Adults can't expect to cosy up to an activist movement that regularly calls for a friend's assassination, then assert their right to the former friend's love, as though the friend was in fact their mother. Emma is rightly free to disagree with me and indeed to discuss her feelings about me in public - but I have the same right, and I've finally decided to exercise it."
https://x.com/jk_rowling/status/1972600904185483427?t=ionKUuqjNTaQCNyTSbD6TQ&s=04&fbclid=IwY2xjawNHjSFleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHtLGyI8Km4MkObtYvH9dzU3lBsxcPjFGZHDqrB2o4GOKcP02-zKwoNAYFFEL_aem_J7d8aN7xEVOpXwWmMoResQ -
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FemaleIsNotAFeeling (femaleisnotafeeling@spinster.xyz)'s status on Monday, 22-Sep-2025 23:46:03 JST FemaleIsNotAFeeling
@KeepTakingTheSoma Cursive too! ✍️ -
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FemaleIsNotAFeeling (femaleisnotafeeling@spinster.xyz)'s status on Thursday, 18-Sep-2025 04:56:45 JST FemaleIsNotAFeeling
@Blackgendermoderate @KeepTakingTheSoma A lot of people have been fired for celebrating his death...I wasn't sure how I felt about that at first, (being against cancel culture and all). Though I came to the decision that celebrating and calling for the deaths of more like him (JK Rowling, Matt Walsh, Elon Musk, Trump etc) was the potential start of a reaaally bad trend. A path I don't want to see our country go down.
Because if a guy from the left killed Charlie Kirk, then someone from the right will kill someone on the left next...and then we'll all just start killing anyone with politics we don't like from any side. I don't want to see that...the whole who's next thing. Especially as a GC with political opinions many find reprehensible and worthy of taking my life over. It could be any of us next. Charlie wasn't a politician...he was just a citizen like us. He didn't sponsor or sign any bills - he just spoke. Like millions of every day people do.
You don't have to be sad or sorry he's dead...there's admittedly some people that passed away during my lifetime that I'm not exactly mourning or missing to this day. But it is worthwhile to understand, (and it sounds like you do) that even people we don't like don't deserve to be murdered in front of their family just because we don't like what they say. It's all fun and games when it happens to someone we don't like...and a horror when it happens to us or someone we love.
I do think I saw Charlie speak on George Floyd...he was pointing out the fact that he thought George was no saint, (though a lot of people paint him as one)...he was specifically noting how Floyd served 5 years in prison for aggravated robbery and pointing a gun at the woman's abdomen he was robbing. Thankfully he wasn't celebrating his death, but yeah he was basically saying it was no great loss. And I guess that's a fair take.
I won't try to pretend I know what it's like for a black woman in this world...like a man can't know what it's like for a woman. I can try to imagine it somewhat though and I can envision that it adds another layer of shit to deal with for a black woman in many ways. Charlie had some hot takes about race that I as a white woman won't feel personally attacked by. And I can see why you might or do.
I watched his debates for probably the past year or so when he was suggested to me on YouTube. I agree with his stance on transgenderism, immigration, and his hot take on affirmative action and that a huge problem in the black community is that there are less black fathers in the home today, which contributes to a huge swath of cultural problems they are now facing. I can't call what he said about the above racist...it doesn't ring as racist to me, more so reasonable and just plain common sense. A lot of people called him Hitler and that he deserved to die for all that though and I'm just like really? Damn. -
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FemaleIsNotAFeeling (femaleisnotafeeling@spinster.xyz)'s status on Thursday, 18-Sep-2025 04:56:09 JST FemaleIsNotAFeeling
@Blackgendermoderate @KeepTakingTheSoma Ok, but...I'm just now noticing:
Holt shit..."Burstitis Gunk Moose??" Where was I for the creation of this shiny gem of a profile name?? 😆
Sounds like I missed out on a fun day. -
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FemaleIsNotAFeeling (femaleisnotafeeling@spinster.xyz)'s status on Thursday, 18-Sep-2025 04:55:31 JST FemaleIsNotAFeeling
@Maud_Gonner @Blackgendermoderate @KeepTakingTheSoma Thank you, Maud...that's very sweet of you and it means a lot. 😊
I sure do hope we all come through this and heal as a country. We've been too divided for too long. -
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FemaleIsNotAFeeling (femaleisnotafeeling@spinster.xyz)'s status on Thursday, 18-Sep-2025 02:28:20 JST FemaleIsNotAFeeling
@Blackgendermoderate @KeepTakingTheSoma C'mon BGM...you're smarter than that. It's not only white people and men who feel it was wrong to kill him for his beliefs. -
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FemaleIsNotAFeeling (femaleisnotafeeling@spinster.xyz)'s status on Monday, 04-Aug-2025 02:43:11 JST FemaleIsNotAFeeling
@KeepTakingTheSoma That is so sweet...Momma knew her baby's cry.
It reminds me of how in a crowd of hundreds of thousands, each penguin can distinguish its own baby's cry.
Instincts are strong! The bond between mother and child is undeniably one of the strongest things on earth.
I remember when my friend had her first. The baby was newborn and she cried and my friend started leaking a little bit of milk through her shirt instantly. She was like oh my god what is happening? Her body was so in tune with her baby and its needs. Really is a beautiful thing. -
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FemaleIsNotAFeeling (femaleisnotafeeling@spinster.xyz)'s status on Saturday, 05-Jul-2025 17:17:00 JST FemaleIsNotAFeeling
@RadicalCartoons Now there's a thought. I hadn't even considered that. You could be right. I think there are definitely people that make money on social media. -
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FemaleIsNotAFeeling (femaleisnotafeeling@spinster.xyz)'s status on Saturday, 05-Jul-2025 17:17:00 JST FemaleIsNotAFeeling
People think this is so cute and funny on the page it was posted on and I'm just like - am I the only one who looks at this and is just kinda grossed out/creeped out? I'm like ugh...this is not cute at all. -
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FemaleIsNotAFeeling (femaleisnotafeeling@spinster.xyz)'s status on Wednesday, 25-Jun-2025 05:17:09 JST FemaleIsNotAFeeling
Pregnant girl is about to give birth any day now. Does anyone have any experience with cats giving birth?
(Context: my neighbor is a complete neglectful fucktard who has been starving his pregnant kitten. She has found her way to me. A cat lover who is caring fof her in my backyard). -
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FemaleIsNotAFeeling (femaleisnotafeeling@spinster.xyz)'s status on Saturday, 21-Jun-2025 07:06:26 JST FemaleIsNotAFeeling
@AnungIkwe Put your paws in the air and wave em' like you just don't care! -
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FemaleIsNotAFeeling (femaleisnotafeeling@spinster.xyz)'s status on Wednesday, 14-May-2025 01:22:45 JST FemaleIsNotAFeeling
@Yhe_XX_Estate Yes they are absolutely awful!! Recently they stalked an old lady with a cane as she was walking to her car and screamed at her repeatedly to kill herself for being transphobic and that they hoped she died in a car crash etc.
Moments like this is why I have absolutely zero sympathy when these losers off themselves and become the 41%.
https://x.com/MrAndyNgo/status/1919998077114458234 -
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FemaleIsNotAFeeling (femaleisnotafeeling@spinster.xyz)'s status on Tuesday, 25-Mar-2025 01:11:26 JST FemaleIsNotAFeeling
@Economic_Hitman @sun Yes, they can!! But there is almost nothing I hate more than pockets in a skirt or dress, because they float around and tickle my thighs/hips or they add a shit ton of bulk to your silhouette. So they are a definite no from me. -
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FemaleIsNotAFeeling (femaleisnotafeeling@spinster.xyz)'s status on Friday, 07-Mar-2025 02:41:02 JST FemaleIsNotAFeeling
@AnungIkwe What a waking nightmare. Every time I see outrageous things like this, I always catch myself asking who could do this? Why would someone do this? And then I remind myself that we all know who did it and why. Some sick man somewhere did it, because he could. This poor child... -
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FemaleIsNotAFeeling (femaleisnotafeeling@spinster.xyz)'s status on Friday, 14-Feb-2025 02:47:25 JST FemaleIsNotAFeeling
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FemaleIsNotAFeeling (femaleisnotafeeling@spinster.xyz)'s status on Sunday, 26-Jan-2025 06:59:53 JST FemaleIsNotAFeeling
Omfg Ellen wtf are you doing?? -
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FemaleIsNotAFeeling (femaleisnotafeeling@spinster.xyz)'s status on Sunday, 26-Jan-2025 06:48:44 JST FemaleIsNotAFeeling
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FemaleIsNotAFeeling (femaleisnotafeeling@spinster.xyz)'s status on Thursday, 23-Jan-2025 02:33:48 JST FemaleIsNotAFeeling
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FemaleIsNotAFeeling (femaleisnotafeeling@spinster.xyz)'s status on Saturday, 18-Jan-2025 01:37:31 JST FemaleIsNotAFeeling
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FemaleIsNotAFeeling (femaleisnotafeeling@spinster.xyz)'s status on Saturday, 11-Jan-2025 05:49:43 JST FemaleIsNotAFeeling
The "extreme violence" was luring her childhood friend to the woods and stabbing her to death.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14268555/slenderman-stabbing-morgan-geyser.html?fbclid=IwY2xjawHuOztleHRuA2FlbQIxMAABHV2wjvEZJwQZCEZeFsp3rxD6fizJtKKVew1OSoQyY-5axOWOVkXpY5V72A_aem_hlMN8xcDAAi4y68cdnJQ3A