Notices by Keira (She/Her) (keira_reckons@aus.social)

I have a relative who has had her credit card details stolen on so many occassions that we've lost count.

She clicks every email link. She signs up to "tarot of the day" and "spirit guide" text message scams. She buys things like the GeoCleanse. She's been in MLMs and near-cults. She's never met a grift she didn't fall for.

No amount of user training is ever going to get through to this person.

She'll lose her whole life savings before she takes a moment to imagine that an email from her own personal fairy guide *might* be some sort of scam.

It is tempting to say that if you're silly enough, you deserve what you get. But it isn't true. People who make poor decisions need protection too.

This is who I imagine when I imagine the user who needs protection.

We need regulation.

#security #scams #woowoo #infosec

@marshray @cwebber "received wisdom" it sometimes is used to suggest something is true, though, it only gets at the untested nature of the "wisdom".

I do have a better story example though. A cook who always cuts the end off the roast, says she does it because her mother taught her that way, because her grandmother taught her mother that way. They thinksit's needed for the recipe, maybe it makes it juicier? But when asked, her grandmother says, "it's because the roasts we buy from the shop didn't fit in my oven".

Just in case there are any gynaecologist practice managers on here (unlikely), I'd like to express a wish.

Please, please, please, if you have space, separate your pre and post natal patients from your infertility, non-obstetric, and childless patients.

Or at least balance up the info posters a little, so at least a few are about childlessness. Even just a gonorhea poster would be welcomed.

The usual waiting rooms are packed with babies, pregnant people, posters about breastfeeding, and happy smiling baby faces everywhere.

I find it a tiny bit upsetting even now, but I can't imagine how it must be for someone actively miscarrying, reaching the end of an unsuccessful fertility journey, or who lost a child or children, where it's all so raw.

I'm not expecting a world without pregnant people, but maybe a tiny acknowledgement that women's and gynaecological health isn't only about babies, would be great. We're ~20%.

#childless #gynaecology

@skinnylatte yeah, now I'm hungry too.ight need to change my dinner plan.

I was thinking rice paper rolls because it's hot, but now I want rendang, or tempeh.

The guy tiling my house is such chaotic good.

He:

- randomly planted a going-to-seed mature parsley plant in my garden, and a few other people's gardens, because he found them growing on a job site and was sad they'd go to waste. (Parsley doesn't transplant well, and I have a field of it already)

- fixed a hole in my driveway with tiling concrete, without asking or even mentioning it, but did a very good job.

- smokes in the back yard, puts them out, and bins them, but always puts them in the recycling (butts are not recyclable).

- says things like, "this weather is great. This is the plants time, it's their time"

- is great at tiling

@goatsarah seriously! There are a lot of parts I'm sure I don't understand, but even just the experience of sexism my trans friends have told me about are so illuminating.

Why researchers aren't begging you all for your insights is beyond me.

Interesting to hear the Cyber director calling the big outage "not a cyber security incident".

It is affecting news media, banking, economic activity, transport and other industries on a massive scale. The damage will be quite big.

I understand that it's not a "hacking" incident, but it does seem to be showing up a major flaw in connected systems.

#outage #bsod #cyber

@seanbala @LifeTimeCooking it's common, but we don't tend to have it as sweet as it is in the US, and we don't have as many peanut butter flavoured sweets (cookies, cups, candy etc).

In the 90s it was common to have peanut butter sandwiches as lunch to take to school (schools rarely provide lunch here). But it's not allowed at schools now because of allergies.

Seeing a lot of articles about women "choosing not to have children" or being "voluntarily childless" because of economic circumstances.

Just FYI, that's neither voluntary or a choice.

People who wanted children, but missed out for financial reasons, are #childless not by choice (CNBC).

With all the grief associated with that. Don't minimise it.

Same goes for those who feel compelled by environmental collapse to not have kids.

Thinking a bit about teen girlhood lately, as some children in my orbit reach that stage, and their parents worry about what they might experience.

So, a note.

I've been a teen girl and a young woman. I experienced endless sexist jokes and comments, lots and lots of leering, harassment, a bit of groping, a couple of instances of being followed, and an attempted assault. It starts as soon as you're identifiably woman-bound, so around 11-13. To be clear, that is a *normal* amount of that shit for a white lady, and women of colour often experience more.

Never once was I mistreated by a trans person, or a cis man dressing as a woman.

Misogynists have never needed to pretend to be anything other than upstanding men.

Meet Anna, who is rebelling for life this month, and calling on you to join in.

For the less video-inclined (like me), Anna says:

"Hi I’m Anna and I plan to rebel this March because I really care
about the effect of climate change on real people right now and I
think you should too.

Chances are you already know somebody
who’s felt the effect of the bushfires, or the floods or you know
someone who is going to feel those effects very soon.

Civil disobedience has been very successful in movements as
recent as gay marriage and it will be successful in this
movement too, but we need to act now. And we need big
numbers.

Please join us on the streets."
– Anna P

#melbourne #climatechange #climateEmergency #XR

@anarchopunk_girl oh I know that experience. The fucking worst.

I came to Rome, and visited the Vatican, and climbed ~320 steps, and took many photos.

But my favourite is this cranky-looking seagull.