Notices by Sir Inge (ildottore@social.xenofem.me), page 2
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Sir Inge (ildottore@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Wednesday, 01-Nov-2023 05:53:01 JST Sir Inge @eris @Arcana @ciel @Moon I think one of the biggest problems is the framing of intent and knowledge of boundaries being conflated with harm done—that is, that if someone didn’t know they were bypassing boundaries, the other party can’t be traumatized and experience it as violence, and vice-versa (that if a party is traumatized, the one who caused that must’ve been malicious and known the boundary somewhere). Real encounters, especially sexual ones (but not exclusively), are a lot more complex, and we do a disservice to everyone by framing consent and trauma in such a way. -
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Sir Inge (ildottore@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Tuesday, 31-Oct-2023 09:12:37 JST Sir Inge @nyx @nectarsip Insanely down (I’ve only seen the first, but I adore it) -
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Sir Inge (ildottore@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Tuesday, 31-Oct-2023 00:26:59 JST Sir Inge I’m gonna lose so much blood in the near future hehe -
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Sir Inge (ildottore@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Tuesday, 31-Oct-2023 00:26:56 JST Sir Inge @nyx It’s so over, they didn’t blood test me for this -
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Sir Inge (ildottore@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Friday, 13-Oct-2023 11:53:39 JST Sir Inge @kittenlikeasmallcat @0utside0utsider @lydiaposting @nyx Definitely should be a collaborative thing with Nyx and possibly other texts if this goes forward. I love the idea, but Nyx should get final say on actually printing the Blackpaper -
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Sir Inge (ildottore@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Wednesday, 11-Oct-2023 06:00:28 JST Sir Inge @nyx Car culture is fucked and I hate that cars are needed to get places. But We Live In A Society so having access to a car is convenient! -
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Sir Inge (ildottore@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Monday, 09-Oct-2023 05:08:59 JST Sir Inge Vibes atrocious -
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Sir Inge (ildottore@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Sunday, 08-Oct-2023 15:22:48 JST Sir Inge @lydiaposting @warmbeverageenjoyer Not only is it transmisogynistic (because it’s done to trans women a LOT), but it also harms actual CSA victims by muddying the waters and diluting what actual grooming is -
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Sir Inge (ildottore@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Saturday, 07-Oct-2023 08:31:26 JST Sir Inge @larsfrommars I hate the way some of these women are grouped together. It’s awful. Fantastic job. -
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Sir Inge (ildottore@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Thursday, 05-Oct-2023 12:35:23 JST Sir Inge @lydiaposting @0utside0utsider I think it kinda depends on who is reading it. Not to make it a closed practice or anything, but there’s certain subcultural currents it can connect with, and obviously numogrammatic reckonings. But there’s a certain type of normie philosophy that is not the target and gets weird (and transmisogynistic) about it -
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Sir Inge (ildottore@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Wednesday, 04-Oct-2023 09:05:46 JST Sir Inge @lilli @nyx On the deeply ambitious end, don’t some people in this circle have Urbanomics connections? -
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Sir Inge (ildottore@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Wednesday, 04-Oct-2023 09:05:35 JST Sir Inge @lilli Honestly, some sort of zine or self-published collection of writings related to the numogram, G/ACC, and their overlap could be cool -
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Sir Inge (ildottore@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Wednesday, 04-Oct-2023 09:05:30 JST Sir Inge @lilli I would find the money to print it out as a zine and leave it around campus if I must -
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Sir Inge (ildottore@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Tuesday, 03-Oct-2023 05:58:11 JST Sir Inge @Mondobizarrro Fair. I'm just hopelessly caffeine-reliant and also a sweet tooth. Cold Sweet Caffeinated Beverage sustains me.
(Funnily enough, though, I can't stand the original flavour of Monster) -
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Sir Inge (ildottore@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Tuesday, 03-Oct-2023 05:15:10 JST Sir Inge @Mondobizarrro Heresy!!! <--- (this user's bloodstream is 20% Pipeline Punch) -
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Sir Inge (ildottore@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Tuesday, 03-Oct-2023 03:00:19 JST Sir Inge @eris I was trying to parse why you would have cell connection hardware as an analogue to earrings and what kind of cybernetics shitpost this was. Took way too long to remember that "g" means "gauge" -
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Sir Inge (ildottore@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Tuesday, 03-Oct-2023 02:28:40 JST Sir Inge @eris Unfortunately I am taken, but we definitely exist -
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Sir Inge (ildottore@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Sunday, 01-Oct-2023 09:50:46 JST Sir Inge @eris Palm trees!! -
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Sir Inge (ildottore@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Friday, 29-Sep-2023 07:31:58 JST Sir Inge @Stellar If I’m a trans guy and can get a bingo on this what does that mean -
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Sir Inge (ildottore@social.xenofem.me)'s status on Thursday, 28-Sep-2023 09:23:01 JST Sir Inge @nyx @scathach This is fascinating because I think piss isn't a bubble for trans men, and I have several theories on why it's a common kink over on the FTM side