@Captain80s @GrungeQueef @admin @GoyGirl @tyler @BadFediPosts @ceo_of_monoeye_dating good on you for taking him off meds
if you want to see real child abuse, it comes in a prescription bottle
@Captain80s @GrungeQueef @admin @GoyGirl @tyler @BadFediPosts @ceo_of_monoeye_dating good on you for taking him off meds
if you want to see real child abuse, it comes in a prescription bottle
@Owl @MK2boogaloo @BadFediPosts lmao, I’m not rationalizing anything, I’m telling you how things actually work in the real world
of your own admission, you do not have children; okay, let me know when you have some, and we can continue this conversation then, it’s not as cut-and-dried as you would like to think it is from your current perspective
in the meantime, take my word for it: he was 100% right, and his kids are going to do just fine, probably better now than before even
for that matter, why not page him into this thread so he can explain if he’s minded to?
@Owl @MK2boogaloo @BadFediPosts yes, that would be why you provide guardrails for your children (“do X”, “do not do Y”) and also provide the incentive to obey those instructions until they understand why (which doesn’t happen until double-digit ages, if then)
making that sausage isn’t pretty sometimes, but it is what it is
@MK2boogaloo @Owl @BadFediPosts how, exactly, do you propose to teach a kid to avoid potentially lethal behaviors?
are you okay with them simply doing free-range stumbling around? or should they be locked in cages when not directly tied to an adult? what is your recommended alternative to “reasonable amounts of freedom of activity with guardrails”?
@MK2boogaloo @Owl @BadFediPosts oh yes you absolutely do
again: children have zero mortality salience; your job, as a parent, is to shepherd them to the age where they can develop it
sometimes, in particularly egregious cases, it requires you to take advantage of situations that present themselves; I guarantee you that that kid will, for the rest of his life, not be careless with his siblings, with others’ children, or with his own, because he will KNOW - deeply, certainly, without a shadow of a doubt - exactly what it feels like to be helpless in the water
that will generalize to a certain caution about potentially dangerous situations, which is precisely what you want the kid to learn - not every dangerous thing “looks” dangerous, THAT’S WHAT MAKES THEM SO DANGEROUS
that, in turn, will prevent the kid from losing his own life…. or worse, from causing the loss of somebody else’s through negligence
that’s worth an unscheduled bath and a minor amount of pants-shitting terror
@Owl @MK2boogaloo @BadFediPosts WHICH ONE?
the one that was led by her brother into the pool that he was explicitly told to stay away from? or the boy, who was being directly supervised by his father as he struggled briefly?
@Owl @MK2boogaloo @BadFediPosts yeah no, that’s absolutely wrong
“trauma” is part of life, the question is what you get out of it
the best you can get out of it: valuable lessons that will help you live your life better
@MK2boogaloo @Owl @BadFediPosts damn skippy, especially when (let’s not lose sight of this) that kid was the reason the other one drowned
@MK2boogaloo @Owl @BadFediPosts that isn’t what he did, either
@MK2boogaloo @Owl @BadFediPosts he was working outside with his kids; his son, disregarding his clear and explicit instructions, took his daughter into a pool nearby, and she drowned
he was apparently able to get her breathing again, and as far as I know there were no downstream consequences, but he was (rightfully) pissed at his son for doing what he had instructed him NOT to do (“do not go in the pool without adult supervision”), so he picked him up and tossed him in the pool while standing next to it
this would be an example of demonstrating “that’s what it fuckin’ feels like”, and was 100% appropriate; he was standing nearby so his SON was in no danger of drowning, but got to experience the feeling of “oh I’m going to be struggling in the water for a minute”
kids are dumb, and have zero mortality salience, so when you run into a scenario like that, it is your absolute divine obligation as a parent to make damn sure the lesson sticks, and if it went down as described, he was 100% justified; I’d have done exactly the same thing, because “I’d fuck up anybody that put one of my kids in mortal danger” doesn’t really have an exception for the person endangering one of your kids being one of your other kids
@Owl @MK2boogaloo @BadFediPosts yes, because it’s appropriate, when the kid clearly does not understand potential consequences, to provide them the experience of it in a reasonably safe and curated fashion
“when I tell you not to do something, this is why“
@ceo_of_monoeye_dating @GrungeQueef @admin @BadFediPosts there wasn’t any part about “wanting to kill his wife”, for one thing, though, as far as I recall
for another, it’s a general (if slightly histrionic) expression of exhaustion; dude’s been through some shit, and I can certainly understand why one gets weary of the endless stream of bullshit
maybe he’s a little more open with his life on social media than I would be (especially given his circumstances), but I can understand the deep exhaustion of trying to make shit work and then getting force-fed a moment of “OH SHIT” panic because the kid chose that moment to not understand clear English while out of your sight for ten seconds
@admin @GrungeQueef @BadFediPosts that…. isn’t what he said
beef is one thing, but accuracy does matter
@ceo_of_monoeye_dating @GrungeQueef @admin @tyler @BadFediPosts I was leaving the option of paging him into the thread to somebody else (Owl), but you can certainly do it too
@Humpleupagus @Amalek_Respector2 @LordOfTheKangs @ShadowBroker @flux @lichelordgodfrey is some kind of Inuit word for pussy?
@Humpleupagus @PNS @eriner the “Nature vs. Nurture” argument turned into the “Nigger vs. Nurture” argument
@p tbh after starting out with the “shredded wheat bricks” bit, I kinda figured the next line after “They shouldn’t think that” was going to be some kind of bowel-movement-related thing relating what happens to you when you habitually consume massive bricks of shredded wheat and the amount of time it causes you to spend in the bathroom, maybe even involving some kind of Indiana Jones metaphor; thank you for subverting expectations
@Humpleupagus @EdBoatConnoisseur @merchantHelios framed that way, the desired end-state of the Bene Jewsserit breeding-program takes shape:
building the perfect goy, one subverted government and one treacherous manipulation at a time
@Humpleupagus @penguin @DMA @Dagnar @Xenophon @DC5FAN @KingOfWhiteAmerica @adequate @mushroom_soup @reallyangry ….but it helps!
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