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Ash Kvetchum (ash_kvetchum@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Saturday, 30-May-2026 21:59:38 JST Ash Kvetchum
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I'm definitely not 6', and I dated a girl who was 6'1 for over a year

Used to just say either "We're the same height horizontally" or "I'm taller at night"

Gotta say I'm not a guy who fantasizes about a taller girl, though I see the appeal. There were two benefits to not always seeing eye-to-eye

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Ash Kvetchum (ash_kvetchum@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 25-May-2026 14:37:36 JST Ash Kvetchum
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Plums, too

I bought some plums for the first time in a long while, last week. Every one was meh (weird ripeness--maybe too soon) 😭

And even then: top tier
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Ash Kvetchum (ash_kvetchum@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Saturday, 09-May-2026 00:48:59 JST Ash Kvetchum
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>a fraternity

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You've got a bead on it. He pressed endlessly for me to join a fraternity, too

I talked to them. Didn't join. There came a point where I had to (sadly) keep my dad out of my affairs for some years. He probably could have given me better advice for some parts during that time (I was young, so of course), but I needed his "He won't mind if I sign him up for this, drop him out of this" and so on overreach away.

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Ash Kvetchum (ash_kvetchum@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Saturday, 09-May-2026 00:45:14 JST Ash Kvetchum
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🍻 I didn't take that road (and here I've been)

Point of contention between the old man and me. We didn't talk for a few years for it

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Ash Kvetchum (ash_kvetchum@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Friday, 08-May-2026 23:32:07 JST Ash Kvetchum
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No, he wasn't great at "public face" charm. He had a physical job.

He has grown the public face though.

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Ash Kvetchum (ash_kvetchum@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Friday, 08-May-2026 23:27:30 JST Ash Kvetchum
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My dad, Uber-Boomer-Prime (not a boomer in age, but in foolish worldview), grew up in poverty. He's agnostic, talks only about money and how to get it (all the false promise ways you'd hear on FOX), and sees the world as a game one can win, "if one is in." He made it to the upper half of middle class by the time I was out of high school.

He wanted me to get into golf, Masons, MENSA (? lol), and so on, growing up--"where business deals happen. You need to get into that culture." So I was in the Order of DeMolay growing up. (Masons for those below 21, 20, 19, 18--depending on the state.)

When ourguys say it's Judaism for goyim, they've got the pulse of it.
Enlightment-lens humanitarian ethics wrapped in mystery rituals interrupting a (primarily) social club.

(No, I'm not in it. I dropped out of DeMolay the day I could, before the cut-off age. I hated every adult there, in a way that made me sad.)

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Ash Kvetchum (ash_kvetchum@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Thursday, 07-May-2026 22:44:01 JST Ash Kvetchum
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>boy scoutish and supermanish

What I'm thinking is this:

"A Scout is trustworthy, loyal, helpful, friendly..." (Boy Scout)
and
"I stand for Truth, Justice, and the American Way." (Superman)
Someone standing with chin up, chest out.

They're charistmatic, want to be involved in doing good and act on it, not shy about helping. Clean cut, fit, into hands-on hobbies. Married. What I'm getting at is they are without many of the libshit male failings.

Instead of being defenders/practicioners of those "Boy Scout / Superman" ideals for their own people, they are Boy Scouts and Supermen for "the most marginalized" (ex. trannies).

I don't see this type of guy a lot. I know of maybe 3 irl. They would be the defenders, a wall of virtue and calm for their family and friends. And they are--but for grotesque versions of the ideals. They're me, if I were retarded.

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Ash Kvetchum (ash_kvetchum@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Thursday, 07-May-2026 22:09:21 JST Ash Kvetchum

There are guy acquaintances who would have been solid guys-- even friends. They are willing to offer a hand, can joke (obvious exceptions), healthy and booksmart.
Married, just trying to live well.

But they hold as their core identity a Boy Scoutish, Supermanish, reddit lens. They--when no one else is around--no women to impress, no camera watching--bring up as a topic how oppressed and in need of defense trannies are (if tangential to some topic).

They would have been the stalwart defenders of the good. The first to speak up. Willing and able to act. Strong, vigilant. They want something to defend.
They are corrupted.

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Ash Kvetchum (ash_kvetchum@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Saturday, 25-Apr-2026 21:27:06 JST Ash Kvetchum
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🤣 True

They have to hardcode "it's actually not the jews" into the spaces people turn for questions: AI and churches

Let off the rails, AI would tell you it's the jews.
Remove the "churchianity" tinted lens, and Christianity's scripture is the only religious scripture that specifically says it's the jews

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Ash Kvetchum (ash_kvetchum@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Friday, 10-Apr-2026 11:21:55 JST Ash Kvetchum
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Fun thread.

Have you guys ever thought about space?
:whoaaaa:

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Ash Kvetchum (ash_kvetchum@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Wednesday, 08-Apr-2026 01:43:17 JST Ash Kvetchum
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>TACO

What is this? Thank you

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Ash Kvetchum (ash_kvetchum@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Monday, 23-Mar-2026 06:36:58 JST Ash Kvetchum
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It's always Broward County lol

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Ash Kvetchum (ash_kvetchum@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Sunday, 22-Mar-2026 13:06:12 JST Ash Kvetchum
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YES, thank you

Also, clarifying: I'm saying it's sad if computer science is someone's course in their declared major--and then they leave it for such a small speedbump

Not talking about someone in general not knowing C

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Ash Kvetchum (ash_kvetchum@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Sunday, 22-Mar-2026 13:01:03 JST Ash Kvetchum
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They consider courses that teach C to be--what's the term? Shoot. Where it's the first "hard course" and people change majors after dropping the course? I forget the term.

Anyway, isn't that sad?
It's because of pointers. That's the "derailing, uh-wuh-oh, time to switch majors" line
lol 😩

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Ash Kvetchum (ash_kvetchum@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Sunday, 22-Mar-2026 06:18:14 JST Ash Kvetchum
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You're too concerned with changing that state.
You will never be sinless.

The idea is that you're forgiven (no further action).

Our difference is in answering "Who is forgiven? How could that happen?"
Most Christians answer that by adding an additional step (whatever subset of: believe, accept, do works, confess, be a member).

Edit: The additional step then says who is forgiven and therefore who is saved (rather than what the prophets prophesied and Christ accomplished)

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Ash Kvetchum (ash_kvetchum@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Sunday, 22-Mar-2026 06:18:13 JST Ash Kvetchum
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Right!

The idea of already being forgiven =/= an invitation to do whatever. Paul writes about this.

We are called to live accordingly ("live up to it" (we could never)).

The Last Judgment/Day of the Lord *is not when it is determined whether* you are saved, but *it is when* you will be saved.
Here is where people will hesitate to agree.
Usually they resort to their specific denomination's understanding.

Friends, I have to get off for now and make dinner

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Ash Kvetchum (ash_kvetchum@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Friday, 20-Mar-2026 19:27:21 JST Ash Kvetchum

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Ash Kvetchum (ash_kvetchum@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Friday, 20-Mar-2026 19:27:20 JST Ash Kvetchum
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I love the dwarves

Take it back 😆
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Ash Kvetchum (ash_kvetchum@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Friday, 20-Mar-2026 12:03:21 JST Ash Kvetchum
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We all see this behavior in "Science" enjoyers, "Progressive" or "Making Great Again" enjoyers, the "Faithful" or the "Logical", etc. : Someone with overconfidence they're holding / supporting Momentum (from whatever source and will not review, only profess)

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Ash Kvetchum (ash_kvetchum@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Tuesday, 10-Mar-2026 01:59:14 JST Ash Kvetchum

Donald HUSSEIN Trump

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