@unchartedworlds @feditips I agree, and I actually wrote a guide with similar advices, but from my observations, it seems to cause even more decision paralysis to newcomers. People are afraid of making a bad decisions and so they prefer status quo (No decisions; not joining the Fediverse)
So I think the most efficient method is to send invites to your friends. Or just ask them a few questions and decide for them. Just 1, maybe 2 options. They can just move later if necessary.