Notices by milkposter (themilkman@shitposter.world)
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@demha @f0x @amerika @p @nerthos @subnetter lol
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@f0x @amerika @p @nerthos @subnetter you're a woman??
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@subnetter @amerika @f0x @p if this dumbass means "the concept of romance" and not the actual philosophy of romanticism it's going to be really funny
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@amerika @f0x @p @subnetter oh so you are arguing with your own specific definitions which are different than what we are talking about, and you must know that fact.
you are a dumb retarded negroid.
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@amerika @f0x @p @subnetter perhaps you're just another miserable bastard who confused cynicism with reality
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@p @f0x @subnetter "the four loves", idk if it's public domain, a relatively short read but the model he talks about is great and it's geniuenly what i use.
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@f0x @p @subnetter it is what it is
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@f0x @p @subnetter my personal problems is that i fail to see that surface level appeal, and i am just disinterested in following through with anything.
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@f0x @p @subnetter something i do believe is that you can fall in love with any woman really.
my model is it usually starts out with (c.s lewis's model of) eros, and then eventually becomes affection (being the love for something familiar).
think of it like this, with age the other person can become less attractive in surface level, but by that point it becomes a love for the familiar, you know all their quirks and those quirks become comforting and consistent, you can even see this with couples that argue very often, and if they part ways, one or both of them would miss the other person because the arguing was geniuenly a part of the relationship.
and too, the same framework someone would always love his mother, because it's *his* mother, there needs to be no deeper reason than that, the same thing applies to a man and his wife.
of course nowadays there is easy divorce and everything, and you have too many options when it comes to who and how a relationship would go, but i think the principle would still apply in the modern world
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@f0x @p @subnetter c.s lewis talked about this
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@f0x personally i am the kind of spiteful bastard to send them a document outlining every single fault of their character and shortcoming
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"the economy is fucking bad, i need to get my dingaling touched PRONTO"
- theorytoe
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@Brandschatzer did i use it wrong here?
it's a good word to describe something i had a problem with but didn't know the word for, am i using it wrong?
i did look up the definition this time
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@Brandschatzer LET A NIGGA HAVE JOY AND WHIMSY.
YOU TOLD ME A GOOD TERM FOR SOMETHING LET THE AUTIST DO IT
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@Brandschatzer YEAH BECAUSE THAT'S FUCKED UP
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the thing with self help is that like 80% of the time when it's told on the internet it's about creating egotistical traits, beyond the "abandon friends who make you uncomfortable(even the ones who are good at making you question yourself)" is the fact that it's about creating permission structures and feeling good.
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>new guy joins our fire department
>just chat with him a bit
>oh he plays guitar too
>he has been playing for 15 years
>i show him "larry and the gang"
>after listening to it once he adds an absolutely diabolical solo in the middle
bros... he is my sensei now, this is beyond anything i have seen before, he is too fucking good.
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thank you for putting my exact thoughts into a form
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yeah, i am probably attractive and charismatic and likeable and have no actual excuse as to why i don't have a girlfriend, but have you considered that despite everything i am still stuck in the mindset of me being a loser?
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i should get myself a sugar mommy that will buy me gear APPLICATIONS OPEN
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