@StillIRise1963 - Deeply.
In the ancient days when I was a young geek, I saw this first hand. There's a species of techbro who still thinks of themselves as tech nerds, and will find a single techie to be their "ordinary guy" buddy.
The thing is, most of us found that deeply disturbing, so they ended up "friends" with either someone profoundly broken, or very intimidated.
And the petty vindictiveness whenever the "friend" decided to end the "friendship"...