@thomasfuchs health care is a thing. Google's is superb.
I would have left in 2023, but I stayed becuase of healthcare. I was pretty upfront about it when asked, too. I finally couldn't take it anymore and took a VEP last summer. even so, I was surprised & dismayed by these i\o announcements.
@mattly I have had it since massive earaches when I was 3 or 4. it is just part of my life.
3 years back, I got pulsatile tinnitus. that is a physical thing, and a stethoscope can hear it. you absolutely do not want that. UCSF has a clinic for it.
@mattly (writes and deletes Very Very Long reply which makes it obvious I am still burned out) at Google we were always encouraged by document word limits and style guidance to use semicolons instead of conjunctions. it was the most egregious for performance evals.
@mattly wrt people, a long-time strategy is to cut people out of my life who operate at unacceptable levels of untrustworthy. sometimes I have used the term "emotional vampire" for this, but other times it's just ... life is too short. eventually (like now) I am left with a group of close friends.
some people are unreliable in only certain ways. I just remember and cut out those kinds of interactions.
in general I do not ever trust people to pay me back any money loan. so if a friend needs money, I set my expectation that's gone. then I am not feeling betrayed if they never pay it back, and I am happy if they do.
the rest of what you say, well, I am still trying to figure it out. push where I can to make things better? try not to deal with companies and systems that are damaging? there is sometimes no choice. but I'm coming up on 6 months not working, trying to figure that out.
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