And that, I am sorry to say, is the problem with anarchists.
I am not an anarchist. I have many friends who are. I don't mind. I want a better world, they want a better world, we simply disagree about how to achieve that. I love and care for friends who are anarchists.
I would, and have on several occasions, marched with anarchists for shared causes. I have participated in their form of protest. I have worked together with people I have significant ideological differences with to make the world a better place.
But they won't do the same for me.
They won't cast a ballot for people who share 90% of their values, the only difference being achieving those values through governance instead of anarchy, to protect us all from people who would put all of us in camps regardless of whether we believe in voting or not.
They proclaim their innocence in the coming nazi government because they didn't vote for any of the (flawed) alternatives, yet they hold us, who voted for non-nazi parties, responsible for the electoral system as a whole, even though said system cares not one bit for how few % of the people voted because it doesn#t need legitimising.
I keep my mouth shut when my anarchist friends post their contempt for anyone who votes, anyone who is not an anarchist, into the world, because I am fond of them and want to be their friend despite that political difference. When I see them telling people who believe that having a constitution which at least guarantees basic human rights is actually not the worst situation to be in to fuck off, I keep my mouth shut, because anything I could say would only upset them and direct that anger towards me.
And I know full well that if I ever posted about my beliefs, about how I believe their refusal to take part in not voting in nazis is a danger to us all, as I post right now, they would not extend me the same courtesy of agreeing to disagree. I keep silent when they say things I consider blatantly dangerous, things that in their effect are no different than any "don't vote" misinformation campaign a Putin troll farm could put out, obvious logical fallacies and things that will result in more people not voting against fascists, I shut up so as to not endanger that friendship, and yet they would not do the same for me.
It's depressing, it's infuriating, and look at where it got us. Nazis win France and take second place in Germany.
Edit: don't put words in my mouth, I'm not blaming anarchists for fascism. I blame fascists for fascism.
I blame (some) anarchists for refusing to even try preventing fascism through electoral means and prioritising their ideological purity over our shared survival.