Notices by Adventurer #Harris (adventurer@sfba.social)

@aulia They are going to have to live with this as public knowledge forever. I had a foray or 2 that I am so glad no one knows.

@BeAware
Lol. My adult kids informed me yesterday that they were officially engaged and all I could think about is it was Friday the 13th.

@BeAware
Thanks for muddling through my phrasing issues.

Definitely I mean the person receiving the response may not be seeing them because a bunch of other posts came into their feed. I am by no means qualified to speak on how this fediverse works. I keep my main scrolling on my home feed so I get responses and all the hashtag and posts from people I follow there. Lately I have been trying to train myself to scroll back because I am not seeing a bunch of things such as responses. I like seriously have to do this and use likes to try to find what I left off. it's important to me to at least acknowledge I saw someone. I have missed even simple things like a response to what type of flooring some DIY person was using. When they didn't respond I assumed they never saw my post. I was so surprised when I found they had answered and I hadn't seen it for 2 weeks. So to make myself feel better I always just assume it wasn't seen.

Your situation sounds much more complicated. I hope for a positive outcome for you

@BeAware
Hi. I can only respond to one of your situations from a relevant point of view. Specifically having help ignored. I recently found responses to my posts that I missed. I don't know why but I felt sort of bad for not even acknowledging the response. But I am a small account and don't interact much. I am thinking a more active account might really lose the response which feels better than feeling ignored. 🤗

@jeffowski
Was this from the NYT?

My kids are a couple of years removed from high school. Yesterday I saw all the kids who unloaded from the school bus which brought back a gazillion memories until I noticed the yellow school bus had a green bumper in front. It really stood out and looked odd. The striping on the bus and the numbers are black. Then I saw the EV and realized that the green bumper meant an electric vehicle. Zomg. I can't even believe it.

@BeAware @akamran I can fix that. Here is an older one but I didn't get a good screenshot.

@akamran @BeAware
Look them up. They have some crazy flavors and change all the time. They recently had BBQ chicken and potato salad flavors.

@BeAware @akamran
It's Portland. They probably have that somewhere.

@BeAware @akamran

Breakfast. And lunch.

#SilentSunsday

@BeAware
So how do we opt out?

@pathfinder @actuallyautistic
Thanks for writing this. I somehow manage to annoy people with no explanation. Like words aren't even exchanged. I don't know if I am projecting an attitude unconsciously, if I have a resting b*tch face, or I have an invisible sign that requests getting bullied. When a couple of things happen I can handle it and let it go, but not forever.

@NaClKnight
I am a wife and can't even read it with a straight face. I used to call my girls that when they were little.