If you're in Ohio and you haven't voted yet, please go this week. It would be fantastic if (some) reproductive rights are encoded into our state constitution, being that we're probably going to be a red state stuck with anti-choice christofascist zealots in office for a long time.
So as I've moved to lip liner pencils, the question of what to do about lip crusties has plagued me. Even after you use chapstick and stuff, they're still prominent enough that using the lip pencil like exaggerates them and it looks weird 😑
But apparently lip brushes are a thing that exist and are really cheap lol. Im glad for all crusty lipped folks that have come before me 🥰 lol
Look, like don't engage with me about this shit, because nobody is going to like what I have to say. Probably not even you.
But I will say this.
"Girlcock" is not "unfortunate branding". The celebration of girldick is important, special, and should be talked about. Just as girl pussy, boy pussy, and boy dick, and all the genital/gender spectrum should be celebrated and talked about.
Not all trans femmes want a pussy. Some of us have dicks and are good with them. I'm one of them. I owe it to the many girlcock-havers who celebrated their having a girlcock in this loud way on the Fedi to shape that perspective, and appreciate other bodies, and my own.
I'm not less of a woman for that. Some trans femmes want pussies (and if they do I hope they get it 💜). But if you believe that a very specific bottom surgery defines transness and/or womanhood, then you need to unfuck yourself.
If you're cis, and hearing about girlcock makes you uncomfortable, then you have some major issues with gender essentialism and transmisogyny.
I'll still fight for better sex education and for your bodies to be talked about loudly, and I'll still think your body is beautiful, but I just wanted to say fuck you for not giving me that same solidarity in return.
I hate that when horny-dog-having old lady misgendered me, my thoughts aren't "fuck her" but "was I not walking femininely enough?" or "God I really need FFS" or "My three years is coming up and like...still?".
Like as annoying as it is talking to cis people, and them acting like misgendering just means that the person was shitty bad person thing so ye of lacking virtue, I wish I could just simply think that, instead of it ruining my whole fucking day.
Hey y'all, per usual I hate to ask, but still nothing has panned out yet that gives me financial stability, so I am.
Can anyone spare a donation? I'm about out of food stamps and money, and per usual it happens pretty quickly every month. (I'm basically left with like $70 a month after paying my phone bill and the portion of rent HUD has me pay).
Help a poor trans girl out if you can. 🥺 Thank you 🖤💜
@kryptskiddy if there's ever self serving people disproportionately going off of someone based on loose allegations, that person seems to always be a tran.
I feel like it's some kind of, "oh well, trans people can still be racist/anti-Semitic/etc (which is true of course)" so that sort of logic just kind of justifies the transmisogyny they're already comfortable spouting.
Like particularly this person today popping off was cis and I've seen them do this to other trans women before.
What's extra fucked up is I feel like when trans women do shit "wrong" on here, they get this very specific targeted attack where as if these dusty ass white cis dudes do shit they just get subtooted about once and then we move on like we just sort of expect this fucked up behavior from them.
Today on shit Rayne was right about but no one listens to:
A large influx of traumatized assholes from Twitter led to people replacing meaningful solidarity with marginalized group into self centered assholes (usually outside of said marginalized groups) honking about shit that satisfies their confirmation bias, craving for conflict, and rewards them by enveloping them in notifications that release dopamine.
As usual, there will be no "accountability", nor is any desired. Nobody becomes safer after this, only less safe. And people move on with their miserable fucking lives with every system of oppression at best in tact but usually strengthened just a tad bit.
Everytime you talk about these kinds of campaigns having some measure of success you talk about some person who is a receptive and open person who did one thing wrong, got called out on it so much that their PR team decided they should actually let said person know about it, and then they fix it and write a good and meaningful apology.
This shit never actually works. Again, this is just so y'all's sick hearts can get likes and boosts and feel a twinge of self importance in a fucked up existence that is cruel to us, and benefits from us fighting with each other, so we never band together and fight people that are actually fucking with us.
Real allyship with marginalized groups will be something that won't make you feel important, won't satisfy your need for conflict. No one will know about it. You just do it because it's fucking right and you feel empathy for another human being that you have more in common with than some asshole who looks like you, or does gender or fucks like you.
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