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f0x (f0x@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Saturday, 10-Oct-2026 08:48:15 JST
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two unemployed individuals, John Dude and John Girl, they marry and hyphenate of course; John & John Dude-Girl. -
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f0x (f0x@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Friday, 09-Oct-2026 09:58:53 JST
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@amerika @p @subnetter @themilkman not at all lol -
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f0x (f0x@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Friday, 09-Oct-2026 08:49:28 JST
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@amerika @p @subnetter @themilkman [f0x] sees no difference between the two -
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f0x (f0x@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Friday, 09-Oct-2026 08:48:35 JST
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@themilkman @p @subnetter the problem with this model is that both parties have to want to make it work. If both do, anything can work. The issue is that it is, 90%, a one-sided effort. -
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f0x (f0x@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Friday, 09-Oct-2026 08:44:52 JST
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really happy, although entirely not human right now. -
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f0x (f0x@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Friday, 09-Oct-2026 08:17:37 JST
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@p @amerika @subnetter @themilkman you know he is trolling. -
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f0x (f0x@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Friday, 09-Oct-2026 08:16:27 JST
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@subnetter @p @themilkman dating is to figure out compatibility (for marriage), yes. -
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f0x (f0x@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Friday, 09-Oct-2026 07:39:50 JST
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@p @subnetter @themilkman romanticism has been plaguing the idea of what love is at *least* since we could write. It as a movement has been terrible and around longer than boomers, though it may have gotten way worse with the boomerism that is "finding yourself" (the you that exists in absence of the structure you are surrounded with is not a complete or purer you, yes introspection and alone time are important but you without a role is less you than you by yourself). TLDR; A "casual" relationship is not a real thing.
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[change my mind]
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f0x (f0x@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Friday, 09-Oct-2026 06:02:02 JST
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@bajax No I 100% do. I can model and understand broken systems, this doesn't mean I can't forever be flabbergasted and upset that it is that way.
You know this is not a foreign idea to me. I remember explaining this exact concept around you at least twice. I'm hopeful and I preach such, not naïve. -
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f0x (f0x@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Friday, 09-Oct-2026 06:01:20 JST
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@subnetter @p @themilkman dating without the intention of marriage is a romanticist whore psyop. -
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f0x (f0x@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Friday, 09-Oct-2026 05:55:50 JST
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@sampler @bajax they literally do -
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f0x (f0x@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Friday, 09-Oct-2026 05:54:47 JST
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@bajax @dsm yeah, same here. I also don't think it's rape or should be punishable by law to do this even if this is really exactly how it went, just culturally/socially unacceptable to drop a person or not see things through. -
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f0x (f0x@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Friday, 09-Oct-2026 05:51:17 JST
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@dsm latent emotions have to do with guesswork but the rest are not related to the problem I'm seeing. -
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f0x (f0x@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Friday, 09-Oct-2026 05:51:11 JST
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@dsm it isn't a non-issue it just wasn't what I was talking about. -
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f0x (f0x@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Friday, 09-Oct-2026 05:51:10 JST
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@dsm in that screenshot from the thread I'm tangentially subposting, the lady implies that the reason they broke up is because she was bad in bed or something. If that's actually true, the guy's a dick and she has to work on something, but if it isn't and it's just guesswork, then the guy's a dick and she may or may not have to work on something.
It seems rare for people to give another person actionable advice. People don't argue correctly, people don't break up correctly, etcetera, because people are not problem oriented, they're pride oriented; this gets in the way of truth and progress. -
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f0x (f0x@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Friday, 09-Oct-2026 05:27:28 JST
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@dsm @Tony @p @Tfmonkey implicit rules like that are funny, like, in France you can accidentally date a woman by hanging out with her 1 on 1 too much. I remember there being similar social rules in Asiatic countries, youth wasting being heavily discouraged and punishable, etcetera. -
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f0x (f0x@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Friday, 09-Oct-2026 05:07:08 JST
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@dsm @Tony @p @Tfmonkey which one, there are a lot of those. -
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f0x (f0x@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Friday, 09-Oct-2026 05:06:22 JST
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@p p don't need no man -
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f0x (f0x@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Friday, 09-Oct-2026 05:03:46 JST
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I think people break up improperly. literally just explain yourselves and then part. what's with all the guesswork. -
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f0x (f0x@clubcyberia.co)'s status on Friday, 09-Oct-2026 05:02:37 JST
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"Do people even–"
No, of course not, silly me.