Notices by Ms. Que Banh (phoenixserenity@beige.party)

@melanie @hosford42 @dalias @giflian
I used to make notes on tests too - criticizing how some questions were presented.

@dalias
I hated IQ tests. I think they're a farce.

@hosford42 @giflian

@hosford42
I pay a lot of attention to microexpressions too. I'm glad you brought this up. I appreciate your relevant share 🙌

@giflian

I don't trust people who never show their anger but keep repressing it & put on a calm front, when they're raging inside. People who constantly choose repression of natural human emotions are folks who have harmed me & folks I care about, much more than we've been harmed by people who don't repress their emotions & express them, when they feel them.

I've always valued authenticity over false public fronts.

*Edit: Same kinda people also tend to claim to hate toxic positivity but they're guilty of engaging in that, all the time. It's like they are blind to themselves.

@giflian I was around someone who hated toxic positivity on receiving ends but had no problems exuding that towards others - especially when confronted with situations that they were uncomfortable dealing with, honestly & openly. They'd pull out their avoidance prayers on people or just run away & completely ignore olive branches for better communication & resolving of conflicts. They couldn't deal with any genuine conflict resolution. There is no way they can truly teach any kid how to deal with conflicts in life, when they avoid dealing with that, as adults.

@giflian I'm not surprised that they refused conflict resolution attempts.
I've also witnessed obliviousness happening to others. The last time was within this month.
I've never thought autistic folks are a monolith. We definitely have many similarities but we also have differences. I've been able to pick up when people aren't being authentic with me, almost all the time. It irritates because I know they're not being honest with me.

@giflian I think those of us who masked for almost our whole lives & were surrounded by NTs who had no idea that we are autistic tend to have learned how to detect when others are not being authentic with us. I learned a lot of detection skills from observing & studying behaviours of NTs for decades. I learned to gain the sensing skills from years of doing that.

If you want to recruit more women into your organization, it's your job to ensure that your organization is actually safe for us to join. You have to do a lot more work than simply repeating: We need more women.

When #parents won't #MaskUp - they teach their #children to not be safe with their #health too. They also teach their kids to not care about others in the community. I'm blown away by how many parents are OK with exposing themselves & their kids to several preventable, airborne illnesses, including covid. They're risking death & disabilities on themselves & their kids.

Our #PublicHealth system is already overburdened & understaffed. We have many former health care workers with long covid & they never returned to work. We are nowhere near prepared to deal with many future cases of long covid & the 2ndary illnesses & disabilities that more people will suffer from - because they aren't being #CovidSafe.

Our government & mainstream media has stopped reporting facts on covid & on long covid. They want the public to forget about it. Which means dismissing the lives of disabled people like me & many others, who are still being covid safe.

#BCpoli #CDNpoli #medical #Healthcare #FireBonnieHenry #BCNewDeathParty #BCNDP #Eugenics #PeopleWithDisabilities #CovidIsNotOver #CovidCautious #MaskUpSaveLives #WearAMask #CovidIsAirborne #MeaslesIsAirborne #PutAMaskOn #ChildWelfare #ParentalResponsibility #ChildrensRights #DisabledRights #DisabledLivesMatter

@msbellows
That is solely the Democrats fault for not doing a better job campaigning & playing to centre right instead of listening to their own constituents & even their own party members who tried to warn them that what they were doing was very dangerous. I'm not going to place more blame on people who felt they had no real choices in voting for evil or evil. Nor would I ever try to blame people who have lost many loved ones to choices Democrats made/supported when they had the powers to do better. I place blames strictly at the Democrats failures to do better - when they had multiple opportunities to do so. I still remember Biden AND Kamala being condescending & dismissive of Palestinians AND Jewish people, begging them both to DO BETTER but they chose not to.

@LPerry2 @MissConstrue @darwinwoodka @mcnado @ai6yr

I'll shut up about politics once the rampant corruption ends. Not likely happening in my lifetime so expect me to not shut up anytime soon. You best look at weakass 'moderates' at that cowardly crap which doesn't help any of us folks in marginalized populations.

FYI - Many self declared moderates/centrists will boost modern day government chosen rez based, band council Indian agents' 'good news' - without any words/lived experiences with many Indigenous peoples who feel abused/exploited by the sellout traitors in their midsts.

Don't be a reckless promoter of ongoing #colonialism & then try to tell me that you're serious about #decolonization work. It's so fucking weakass & hypocritical as heck. Either fully commit to #decolonial work or STFU about how much you care about it. Align your words with parallel actions or I'm not going to take you seriously at all.

#StopTheWhitewash

I have sent this email to the medical clinic & CCed news media too. I am direct as fuck.

#Covid #MasksArmy #MasksAreCommunityCare #MaskUpSaveLives #CovidIsNotOver #CovidSafety #DemandBetter #FireBonnieHenry #BCpoli #PeopleWithDisabilities #DisabledLivesMatter #BCHealth #PublicHealth #BCMedical #PatientRights #Eugenics

TODAY! Please join in! Free to all interested!
My partner, Beau Wagner, is facilitating a workshop for Moose Hide Campaign Day. There's over 100 participants signed up for his talks & still time to register for his workshop or for the other workshops available to the public.

Moose Hide Campaign Day is a day of ceremony where all Canadians are called to join together to take a stand against violence towards women and children and to take practical steps for our collective journey of reconciliation. Registration is FREE to all participants!

https://moosehidecampaign.ca/campaignday/#register

The livestream originating from Victoria, BC. will feature Keynote addresses, along with messages of hope from Co-founders Raven and Paul Lacerte on how we can all work together to end gender based violence in Canada.

You can watch at one of the many community gatherings across Canada, or with family and loved ones via YouTube.

There will be two keynote speakers for the General Plenary, featuring Elain Alec and Michael Kaufman!

Once you register, you will have an opportunity to participate in two virtual workshops via Zoom. Facilitators on a variety of topics will help deepen your understanding of gender-based violence, and empower you with the tools and knowledge to help end this critical issue in our country.

Events and walks will be hosted by communities, schools and groups across Canada! Check the map below to join one in your area!
https://moosehidecampaign.ca/campaignday/#map

As in common in many Indigenous cultures, fasting is a symbol of commitment, and a way to deepen your intention. We encourage everybody to participate in the fast from sunrise to sunset on Moose Hide Campaign Day.

The Sunrise Ceremony from the East Coast of Turtle Island starts the day with intention. You can watch the ceremony on YouTube when the sun rises in your location.

There will be a livestream of the fast-breaking ceremony where witnesses from across Canada share their experiences from the day.

#Indigenous #EndViolence #AntiViolence #NativeMastodon #MooseHideCampaign #Canada #FreeEvent

Hey everyone! I want to let you know that the #LondonDrugs store in Rutherford Mall in #Nanaimo has an amazing #AntiAbleist #inclusive manager. My friend, Tessie, is a #DisabledEmployee there. The manager, Warren, went out of his way to help her feel supported at work. He made her a shirt & a sign for her workstation 👏

If you're on #VancouverIsland in the Nanaimo area, please support this specific store. Please let them know that the public appreciates how they treat their disabled employees & thank Warren for being a stellar, inclusive & thoughtful store #manager 👍

https://www.londondrugs.com/stores/nanaimo-north-town-centre/s/072

#PeopleWithDisabilities #Inclusion #Deaf #HardOfHearing #VisuallyImpaired #WorkplaceAccomodations #DisabledWorkers #Ethics #Bravo

My right knee gave out; I tried to prevent my knees from hitting cement floor & ended up hitting my head against side of furnace, resulting in a goose egg on side of forehead. I've got a icey compress on it & will be using multiple ones today. Switching to warm compress after 24 hrs of cold compress.

Self injury. Ouch.

I was at the hospital almost all day - a lot of waiting around. I have a mild concussion & have to take 2 weeks off from work, per doctor's orders. I have a follow up appointment the Friday after this week. I'm very tired now. I am going to sleep. I will catch up with folks when more rested & in less pain.

#Starbucks is one of the easiest boycotts to engage in. There's so many other choices for coffee shops - many local cafes need your support more!
None of us need to keep giving Starbucks any of our money. They're #UnionBusters & their company supports #EthnicCleansing #genocide of #Palestinians too. Stop giving them money!

#BoycottStarbucks #BDSMovement #BoycottIsraeliApartheid #TalkWithYourWallet #BoycottsWork #YourPersonalChoicesMatter #KnowBetterDoBetter #DoYourPart

Thawing out frozen wild #salmon to butterfly before cooking them over the fire.
The oceanspray branches that we stripped bark off from yesterday, are soaking under the 5 fish.

#Fish #Esquimalt #FirstNation #IndigenousFood #CulturalFood #TraditionalFood #NativeBC #YYJ #VictoriaBC #VancouverIsland #VanIsle #PacificNorthwest #PNW #Seafood

Beau & Tyler, by the fire & #salmon.

#Fish #Esquimalt #FirstNation #IndigenousFood #CulturalFood #TraditionalFood #NativeBC #YYJ #VictoriaBC #VancouverIsland #VanIsle #PacificNorthwest #PNW #Seafood