@Wraithe Yeah, just as a counterpoint, women are exposed constantly to male hate on both personal and systemic levels. Women are allowed a bit of trauma response when men routinely rape and murder us. Maybe not you personally but you still end up benefiting from our oppression. It's like being perceived as White in our society, we benefit from the oppression of non-White people wether we intend to or not. Or living in the West, we benefit from the exploitation of Africa and the global south even if it's not intentional on our part.