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@SuperLutheran I had a conversation with someone recently and he was talking about how all his married friends seem to be strictly friends with othee married couples
I would bet that helps guard against female envy driven sabotage
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@DEERBLOOD @SuperLutheran There's so many challenges being friends with people who are single or childless when you're married with kids. They literally can't understand your level of obligation to other people and how it shapes your perspective. Even giving advice, when asked, can turn into frustration or scornful reactions, sometimes out of envy. We've lost many friends because they don't get it, and we've gained many who do. The people who we've added to our lives are the type of people who build societies, and we've mostly removed the bugmen.
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@BowsacNoodle @SuperLutheran That's good. I have married friends but they're basically bug couples (one has "fur babies" and the other just decided to start trying now that she's 35)
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@DEERBLOOD @SuperLutheran Yeah you'll slowly distance yourself from them once kids come. They invite you to things that aren't child friendly without ample warning to get a sitter, or your kids are sick. They'll want to get together to watch sports ball and drink and their house has white carpet everywhere and nothing fun to do for the kiddos. They have more "toys" like a cool home theater room, so they don't want to come to your house with children's stuff and your theatre room is a nursery. They want to get together at 8pm on a weeknight (lol, lmao).
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@BowsacNoodle @DEERBLOOD @SuperLutheran my best friend is married we don't really do anything but chat on facebook or the phone infrequently or i go over there and help him with some manual labor he needs to get done etc. but i understand why that is even if i'm more than a little disappointed at it for the moment.
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@givenup @DEERBLOOD @SuperLutheran FWIW the single dudes tend to understand it more than the women. The bugmen guys just become DINKs playing videogames into their 50s while malding if they're married or getting scummier if single. Normal guys stay decent if they're grounded enough and not soaked in soy.
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@Xenophon @DEERBLOOD @SuperLutheran It is better to marry and have kids within your ethnic group and race. I cannot control his desire for rice, but if he loves his woman he should marry her and have children (and pray they're girls or blessed with Genghis Khan tier warrior genes if boys).
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French children eat what their parents are eating, and sit down and be quiet.
Crazy.
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Also sto pencouraging him to make yellow babies. Wtf is wrong with you people
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@Xenophon @DEERBLOOD @SuperLutheran Living in sin dishonors both the man and woman and harms the woman more, for reasons we all understand.
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@BowsacNoodle @DEERBLOOD @SuperLutheran not to toot my own horn, but i am pretty empathetic in general
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@BowsacNoodle @DEERBLOOD @SuperLutheran Something I learned after being in a relationship for so long is that single women are every bit as autistic and weird as men and they only act weirder when they find out you're taken.
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@Xenophon @DEERBLOOD @SuperLutheran Some American children do that too. It's not impossible to raise kids like that, but it is difficult.
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@Xenophon @BowsacNoodle @SuperLutheran I'd much rather have white kids but if the choice is die alone or have hapas I'll take the hapas and we can buff out the yellow in a few generations
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@Xenophon @DEERBLOOD @SaltWraith @SuperLutheran @givenup >Youd literally be more related to a random White child you adopted
Maybe. In a lot of ways yes, but the specific genes that shape personality seem more directly heritable. I don't have data to support that, besides the obvious fact that phenotypic expression is not 1:1 off genotype.
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Race mixing is bad guys, except when a based White nationalist does it because he wants kids.
Youd literally be more related to a random White child you adopted
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@DEERBLOOD @givenup @Xenophon @BowsacNoodle @SuperLutheran a meme that we all beat in to the ground as a collective.
thank you for your service Mistar Horpus
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@givenup @Xenophon @BowsacNoodle @SuperLutheran I am a meme
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@Xenophon @BowsacNoodle @DEERBLOOD @SuperLutheran he's livin' the meme
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@BowsacNoodle @DEERBLOOD @SuperLutheran yeah, it takes about a year or so and you just stop getting invited to stuff. after a little while, people will still invite you just to be nice but they know you'll probably not be able to, gradually they just stop bothering. I did the same thing when some of my friends had kids before me, now I'm on the other side. this restructuring of society that made things like this is a really insidious way of fragmenting people at a low level, I have almost no friends now when I used to have dozens, and all because the modern way of life drives people all into their own separate paths instead of encouraging them to do it together. something as simple as 'oh my friends are having kids, but I'm just not ready yet so I'm gonna wait a few years' is enough to gradually wear down good friendships if you're not careful.
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@SaltWraith @DEERBLOOD @Xenophon @BowsacNoodle @SuperLutheran
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@DEERBLOOD @Xenophon @BowsacNoodle @SuperLutheran or you could just eat them.
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@SaltWraith @Xenophon @BowsacNoodle @SuperLutheran Nigga what
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@DEERBLOOD @Xenophon @BowsacNoodle @SuperLutheran I was making a fat joke but yeah on second though, maybe that's the ancient greek tragedy shit that's a little too far
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