@DEERBLOOD @SuperLutheran Yeah you'll slowly distance yourself from them once kids come. They invite you to things that aren't child friendly without ample warning to get a sitter, or your kids are sick. They'll want to get together to watch sports ball and drink and their house has white carpet everywhere and nothing fun to do for the kiddos. They have more "toys" like a cool home theater room, so they don't want to come to your house with children's stuff and your theatre room is a nursery. They want to get together at 8pm on a weeknight (lol, lmao).