But I don't think I would be interested in dating her either. She is bi and an INFP, which does not flow well with my INTJ nature. She is also into Tarot readings, which is something I don't like.
Unless she is interested in changing, I don't see our relationship going further.
I'm looking for someone kind, full of grace, willing to work through issues, one who is Godly. Basically, the model of a Christ-like woman. Though I may have to find that elsewhere.
I was helped out in the past but never kept talking with my dad regularly. I am learning about how to build relationships and healing complex trauma. I know I will never make the same errors twice.
I have been in a rough patch the past year. The good thing is that I am healing and am repairing my life. I am crunched with school right now, but I have it under control and know how to proceed.
Embed this noticeAndrew ✝️ (cybershell@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Saturday, 20-Apr-2024 13:00:34 JST
Andrew ✝️In the United States, teenagers can focus on one task for only sixty-five seconds at a time, and office workers average only three minutes. Like so many of us, Johann Hari was finding that constantly switching from device to device and tab to tab was a diminishing and depressing way to live. He tried all sorts of self-help solutions—even abandoning his phone for three months—but nothing seemed to work. So Hari went on an epic journey across the world to interview the leading experts on human attention—and he discovered that everything we think we know about this crisis is wrong.
We think our inability to focus is a personal failure to exert enough willpower over our devices. The truth is even more disturbing: our focus has been stolen by powerful external forces that have left us uniquely vulnerable to corporations determined to raid our attention for profit. Hari found that there are twelve deep causes of this crisis, from the decline of mind-wandering to rising pollution, all of which have robbed some of our attention. In Stolen Focus, he introduces readers to Silicon Valley dissidents who learned to hack human attention, and veterinarians who diagnose dogs with ADHD. He explores a favela in Rio de Janeiro where everyone lost their attention in a particularly surreal way, and an office in New Zealand that discovered a remarkable technique to restore workers’ productivity.
Crucially, Hari learned how we can reclaim our focus—as individuals, and as a society—if we are determined to fight for it. Stolen Focus will transform the debate about attention and finally show us how to get it back.
What if he does? It depends on how you behave or act. It depends on how you treat him. So what if he can't see Gab is dying? Think about other things. Like having fun here. Have compassion on people. Be kind and considerate of other people's views. That is what's lacking here.
I get that some people will still bring others down and not be kind or empathetic, but how you react makes a difference.
Embed this noticeAndrew ✝️ (cybershell@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Saturday, 28-Oct-2023 08:42:56 JST
Andrew ✝️Let me preface this by saying I am tired of being single, I guess. I have a strange conundrum. I found some on Tinder. She is on the track team, but my friend who is also on the track team does not see her that often. The way Tinder works is you have to match each other before sending a message. I have several ways I could go about this: Send email (creepy)
Ask my friend to give her a message and my number
Get a subscription to one of Tinder's tiers and look at who has liked me
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