Nobody has a child going to school as one gender and returning as another.
Trans people are not attacking women (or anyone else) in bathrooms.
Nobody is going through the hell of transitioning, putting up with the shit people give them etc for 'fun'.
All trans people want to do is just get on with life, doing what they want to do which harms nobody else whatsoever so they don't have to spend an entire lifetime miserable.
The rhetoric to suggest otherwise is 100% bullshit.