i've seen this in other posts but it bears repeating:
if you are able to hire, house, or in any other way aid a member of the community - do so.
even a place to meet weekly and just talk about things will do wonders for everybody.
as things progress there will be fewer and fewer places that are hospitable to them and with that the mental toll of being an "outsider" will severely hurt them - not to mention the physical toll of being cast out.
the end result is the breakup of community and the loss of morale.
the fediverse (i think) already does a good job of mutual aid, however, it won't be enough.
if i read the EO correctly it seems that groups that receive government money will be forced to accept its definitions. ie. anything semi-touching on trans anything will be cut if the group wants government money.
this is where i grew up. my school, church, etc. all refused any sort of government aid because to do so meant playing by their rules.
we were always fundraising. growing up, i sold so much random stupid stuff to anybody that i could that, i believe, it ruined future me on ever being able to make a buck.
make an organization and funnel bake sale money into it and then dole out the money for aid. sell cookbooks, chocolate, trinkets, flowers by the side of the road, anything and everything.
the key is to find the line between legitimate fundraising and being a grifting asshole.
regardless, the ultimate goal is to help the community function and continue on.
we've been in it but we're really in it now. there's absolutely no point in shoving people's heads and forcing them to look at the shit we're in.
we all know the shit we're in.
information sharing is crucial but dooming isn't. dooming is a morale killer.
also, the cruel "well looks like *this group* is finally finding out, hahaha" is disastrous.
what's the end goal here? because it certainly isn't one that includes people into the community and cause.
good on you, you suffered more in the suffering game. give me 10 seconds and i can find someone suffering so hard that it makes you look like a baby and then what?
point is, there's no end or bottom to people's suffering. nor is there some sort of victory in being the person who "had it worse".
on that same note, pointing out the absurdities of the enemy doesn't help either. all of this "mask off" talk or "see they really are nazis!" stuff is a waste of time.
it's a nice hope but it's a waste of energy.
we know they're nazis and they know they're nazis (or, rather, the modern equivalent - republicans).
no amount of shouting "see! look!" is going to change a thing. Elon won't wake up one day and be like "shit, really?! fuck. i will change! i am a changed man!"
Musk could have, quite literally, gone up on stage dressed as mini-hitler and he would have received the same amount of applause and defense from the people who did it then and are doing it now.
the result of their words/behavior is to provoke you and make it all into a laugh. this, in turn, encourages people who wouldn't have - say - played hitler in the past to do it because it "makes the libs freak out"
next thing, all of the republicans are jerking their arms up in the air all the time because "ha! lolz! leftists mad!"
finally, it becomes another part of the process of initiation into the right.
people who are sitting on the fence during all of this are going to fall off in one direction or another.
the job is to pick up the people who fall our way and help them.
scolding, pedantry, etc are simply not useful or beneficial to anyone but the enemy.
adding to this - be leary of fiefdoms and gatekeepers.
anybody that's been on fedi for longer than 2 minutes should already be familiar with *discourse* and *meta* but one more time:
be cautious around people who claim much influence and knowledge. the urge to build a tiny influence kingdom is great for a lot of people and many fall into it.
watch people for a long time before making a decision. how do they handle different situations? more importantly, how do they hand being challenged?
elf got a hay poke or something in his eye so we’re at the vet. elf, however, has gone to his happy place and/or needs a reboot - bro has mentally left the building.
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