Exactly right.

And since Doxie brought up the anal sex thing in porn, I've got something to say about that. It used to be a fairly rare thing to come across a gal who wanted that, but not anymore, and porn was definitely the agent of change on that one.

It makes me think of this guy I knew in my Army days who was a bit of a Chad. He was always going on about railing chicks in the ass. Saying how much fun it was. It sounded odd to me cuz I didn't consider it normal and I never wanted to do it. So I asked him why? Why are you into that?

And he said "Oh, it's great. And you can make her like it. Love it. To the point that she'll ask for it every time. Demand it even."

And right then and there I knew what it was all about. He was getting off on defiling these girls, and the girls were getting off on being defiled, and he was getting off again on knowing that he'd defiled them to the point of turning them."

Ain't no way that there's anything wholesome or romantic about that. It's evil.