@d0c40r0 @DMA @Rose @tyler @verita84 @themilkman How do the uncles and grandfathers feel about this? Give your potential widow a bit of control over the situation. I've already told my wife that if I'm gone, I want her to be happy, whether single or with a new husband. Her happiness is the most important thing to me. I feel like it's almost selfish to think otherwise.