The fact he never even mentioned saving her from the grind backs up what I said earlier. He's a narcissist. He doesn't even take her into consideration..

If he just did what I suggest, and otherwise acted a little like a stud in his free time — maybe lift some weights, run, etc., he'd be getting soooo much puss that his testicles would invert.

As it stands, she doesn't want to fuck him. It's obvious.