Like I get it, "Ha ha men are strong, there's no way it can happen."
Not all men are strong, and not all women are weak. There are outliers obviously. Second there are also different scenarios at play, many involve intoxication, there are one too many that don't. Sometimes women have been known to force it through other means, through the thread of employment loss or of not being promoted. Men can be sexually violated in many of the same avenues that women are, and if they're not physically overpowered it's often just a matter of strategy. Rape is rape.