@JoscelynTransient @emmalilian @faithisleaping @rooster @siege Mine was like having faulty wiring for the house, knowing the wiring’s bad, but not being able to fix it. Then the house catches fire, and trying to make sure everyone else is out of the house, having the initial exit path blocked, then nearly collapsing, and needing help to stagger out of the building.
And finding places to be me, to be comfortable are absolutely critical.