@mckra1g @Spicewalla @accretionist @BlackAzizAnansi Some folks are set up for it from early on. I lost a friend down that pipeline, and I tried to be there for her when she was vulnerable. Looking back on it, I realized the seeds were there since before we met, from her upbringing. She'd also gotten knocked down and then "rescued" repeatedly by this same culture, so by the time she got to that stage of life, she was already both broken down and primed.