@brigrammer @bloggerski @BasedLord @jb @NoDoxGregBrady @oneBasedBrother Would you have some source for that ? I've never heard about oxytocin decreasing with multiple partners.

I think a woman who have been disappointed in several men before will indeed be more wary. I don't think it's a personality problem, I think it's a sign of good pattern recognition abilities.

> She is likely to be better at sex - but that isn't much of a consolation for a man looking for a wife.

She is likely to know her body and emotional needs better, and be able to explain it, in order to make the relationship sweeter and worthy to be lived *

> it isn't like women are out teaching men what to do nor do they have any idea how their own bodies work.

Women do not all work the same, and men either. We all have our way to enjoy sex. It is not just about rubbing parts. It's mostly about emotional and mental needs.
And yes, we do know, after some experience, how our body -and brain- work, and how to get pleasure from it.
And if you are listening to your partners, you can also learn how to do it, and it might make them stick around more easily.

> If you read your own words dispassionately, you'd see you disproved your own premise.

Can you enlighten me ? If you mean my grandma having to chose a stable situation over love, that's my whole point. Today, women don't need to do that as much, as they can sustain themselves.