@wjmaggos @DarrenNevares @monkyyy so though to be clear I don't consider being an asshole to someone to be harassment but I try to prevent dogpiling. there is a problem though which is that dogpiling can happen by a group of people spread across many servers so one aggressive comment coming from my server might not be harassment by itself by my definition but is participating in harassment. over time I have realized this is an intractable problem if you allow people to express themselves.