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   BowserNoodle ☦️ (bowsacnoodle@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 12:46:48 JST BowserNoodle ☦️
   I am going to block the next childless dingus who says that a woman can't have kids past 30.
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     BowserNoodle ☦️ (bowsacnoodle@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 12:55:14 JST BowserNoodle ☦️

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     @givenup Some ladies can keep going until almost 50. If you don't take hormonal birth control for decades it's way way easier. I know it's not that simple and some people just can't conceive.
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     givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 12:55:15 JST givenup

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     @BowsacNoodle my best friend had 8 kids with a 33 year old :3
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     BowserNoodle ☦️ (bowsacnoodle@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 12:58:48 JST BowserNoodle ☦️

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     @givenup Too many goofy goobers out there trying to make perfect the enemy of good.
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     givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 12:58:49 JST givenup

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     @BowsacNoodle point is really, just find someone and make babies.
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     givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 12:58:49 JST givenup

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     @BowsacNoodle but guys in their head about it, making the perfect the enemy of the "good enough"
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     madison (madison@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 12:59:27 JST madison

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     My only friend is my sister and I don't think that counts
     
     And Tyler is my best friend but he's my husband
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     BowserNoodle ☦️ (bowsacnoodle@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 12:59:27 JST BowserNoodle ☦️

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     @madison @givenup >Tyler is my best friend but he's my husband
     As if should be. My wife is my best friend and vice versa.
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     madison (madison@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 12:59:28 JST madison

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     I'm glad you have friends Zeal
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     givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 12:59:28 JST givenup

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     @madison @BowsacNoodle i have A friend, i met him when i was like 14 lol.
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     madison (madison@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:02:20 JST madison

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     100% although someone on fedi tried to argue with me that you can't be your wife's friend and I thought that was wild.
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     BowserNoodle ☦️ (bowsacnoodle@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:02:20 JST BowserNoodle ☦️

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     @madison @givenup We have wildly different POVs on things sometimes. We share a love of music and art and cooking. She doesn't care about a lot of stupid garbage that I waste my time on and vice versa. So be it.
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     givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:02:36 JST givenup

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     @madison @BowsacNoodle tbh i'd argue that men and women can't be friends outside of marriage
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     BowserNoodle ☦️ (bowsacnoodle@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:05:00 JST BowserNoodle ☦️

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     @givenup @madison That one is more complicated, but I say mostly true. I can talk to anyone for a while and be friends with them and I've had to consciously check myself from accidentally talking to women too long before. It helps that I have zero interest in them and talk about my family a lot, but it's still not a thing I want to project. The Mike Pence strategy is solid.
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     Summertime for Zeon (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:07:15 JST Summertime for Zeon

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     @BowsacNoodle Depends on when they start up the factory though. A lot of girls in my age bracket are finding out pregnancy isn't a given when their very first chemically-uninhibited menses comes at the age of 35. They enter their middle ages with a belief that they'll get pregnant as easily as they did at seventeen, when they're actually playing some pretty uphill odds unless they've stayed pretty healthy and unmodified.

     Hell, I was JUST having to smile and nod along about some 36 yo woman trying to go through IVF. She's telling me about it as if the norm that we should accept is IVF by default. That's how bad it is, everyone of us is so poisoned we have to pat each other on the back and act like the default cost for a white baby is $100,000 in cash.

     Shaming is the only real tool that pushes women into better behavior, making them judge each other is at least better than coddling them and playing to the lie that pregnancy is just a free, easy, and granted aspect of life. That door slowly closes over time, and women don't even realize they've spent their lives nailing extra deadbolts to it because they had to do things the "right" way

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     BowserNoodle ☦️ (bowsacnoodle@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:07:15 JST BowserNoodle ☦️

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot For a lot of them, once they prime the pump and have that first one, they're able to have the rest without much effort. Still, 20 years of birth control will do that to you.
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     givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:07:51 JST givenup

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     @BowsacNoodle @madison they're only aquantainces
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     givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:07:52 JST givenup

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     @BowsacNoodle @madison i knwo for a fact i can't be friends with a female without awnting to be romantically involved with her.
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     BowserNoodle ☦️ (bowsacnoodle@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:09:24 JST BowserNoodle ☦️

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     @givenup @madison It just depends but I agree. My thing is why would I put myself in that situation. Some of my wife's friends are actually cool AF (one of them is "one of the guys"),but I wouldn't want to talk to her ever because of the implications.
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     Coon Appreciater (mebigbrain@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:09:50 JST Coon Appreciater

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     @BowsacNoodle IMPREGNATE HAGS
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     Coon Appreciater (mebigbrain@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:10:00 JST Coon Appreciater

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     @givenup @BowsacNoodle Seduce hags? :jahy_hmm:
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     BowserNoodle ☦️ (bowsacnoodle@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:10:00 JST BowserNoodle ☦️

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     @MeBigbrain @givenup Total Hag Life
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     givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:10:01 JST givenup

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     @MeBigbrain @BowsacNoodle you'd prolly be better off int hat endevor if you stopped calling them hags, my mom is almost 60 and she still get spissed if i call ehr old.
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     givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:10:28 JST givenup

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     @BowsacNoodle @madison then again i'm completely broken and unhinged.
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     ?? Humpleupagus ?? (humpleupagus@eveningzoo.club)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:10:28 JST ?? Humpleupagus ??

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     Imagine talking to women. 😒
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     givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:11:04 JST givenup

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     @Tony @WashedOutGundamPilot @BowsacNoodle if they gotta girlboss they shoudl girlboss hteir kids around, and then think about a career after they leave hte nest.
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     BowserNoodle ☦️ (bowsacnoodle@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:11:04 JST BowserNoodle ☦️

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     @givenup @Tony @WashedOutGundamPilot Girlboss by being a teacher to your kids and teaching them to clean up after themselves and have good manners.
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     Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:11:05 JST Mr. Bacon

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     It actually is kind of sad. Women absolutely refuse that they have to choose - girlboss or have kids. And you have to put one on hold. But the lie we tell them is that they should girl boss first. you can always go to school and get accolades but you can't always have kids
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     givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:11:09 JST givenup

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     @Humpleupagus @madison @BowsacNoodle you don't ahve to imagine it you're married.
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     ?? Humpleupagus ?? (humpleupagus@eveningzoo.club)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:11:09 JST ?? Humpleupagus ??

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     What's your point? 🤔
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     BowserNoodle ☦️ (bowsacnoodle@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:12:01 JST BowserNoodle ☦️

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     @Tony @WashedOutGundamPilot @givenup You can't have kids (plural) at 20 and then work at 25 unless you want public schools to groom your kids into trainsexuals
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     Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:12:02 JST Mr. Bacon

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     it would be easy enough to have kids at 20, and then girl boss from 25-50. Idk why we don't encourage that route tbh
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     Summertime for Zeon (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:18:58 JST Summertime for Zeon

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     @BowsacNoodle @givenup Yeah I don't think a single ex of mine got past age 14 WITHOUT being on birth control

     By the time the popular "cool girls'" are 25 their bloodstream is more chem-laden than a septic tank at woodstock. I wish I'd taken fertility more seriously in my search. I listened to the retard experts when they said birth control was as simple as a circuit breaker, and all it took to start the production line was a couple months of being switched "ON" again

     Life is not so simple, the consequences not so light as they'd promised

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     Wolfgirl in Wheatfield (wgiwf@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:19:05 JST Wolfgirl in Wheatfield

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot @BowsacNoodle @givenup >birth control is destroying the natural system of fertility and conception
     Looks like he deserves an apology for being right about this.
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     BowserNoodle ☦️ (bowsacnoodle@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:20:54 JST BowserNoodle ☦️

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     @Tony @WashedOutGundamPilot @givenup Many such cases. Talked with a friend who told me today "yeah I don't want to have kids... I mean, maybe, but I don't want to be too old and I'm already over 40" like nigga who cares. The old dads end up being more chill anyway.
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     Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:20:59 JST Mr. Bacon

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     I actually just saw an example of extinctions like this week. I thought it was just bs, but there is actually a way of thinking going around where they literally prioritize themselves over the continuation of the human race which is beyond retarded.
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     Mr. Bacon (tony@clew.lol)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:21:00 JST Mr. Bacon

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     Well, im just saying for the sake of the feminist argument too and population replacement. It is still a better life plan to have kids early and then study and work later.
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     givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:21:00 JST givenup

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     @Tony @BowsacNoodle @WashedOutGundamPilot they don't wanna maintain the population
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     givenup (givenup@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:21:57 JST givenup

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot @Tony @BowsacNoodle yea, turns out the key to happiness is literally jsut doing what you're biologically designed to do.
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     Summertime for Zeon (washedoutgundampilot@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:21:58 JST Summertime for Zeon

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     @Tony @givenup @BowsacNoodle It's not prestigious, and the big truth of working is that it pales against family life. The majority of Doctor slots go to women who vow to be a "force for good in the world"....right up until they get married to one of the 3/10 of the student body that's male. Then they have a kid and realize they could happily go part time instead.

     Then they step them down as they go. "twenty hours a week" becomes ten, then one day seeing pt's, then before you know it they have 4 slots every 2 weeks, and they couldn't care less, because even their dream job is garbage when stacked against hanging with their babies

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     BowserNoodle ☦️ (bowsacnoodle@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 13:23:32 JST BowserNoodle ☦️

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     @WashedOutGundamPilot @Tony @givenup That's why there are a few jobs ladies can rock at that still let them be full time moms. Teachers get summer off. Dental Hygienists make full time pay working 2 or 3 days a week. Work from home helps a lot with this too.
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     Wolfgirl in Wheatfield (wgiwf@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 19:28:00 JST Wolfgirl in Wheatfield

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     @BowsacNoodle @givenup I'm not going to do the math rn but my Grandmother was at least in her late 30s when she had my father.
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     LittleTom (littletom@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 19:28:00 JST LittleTom

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     @wgiwf @BowsacNoodle @givenup My mom was 37 when she had me (youngest of 5) I'm no prime specimen but I'm here at least...
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     BowserNoodle ☦️ (bowsacnoodle@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 22:16:39 JST BowserNoodle ☦️

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     @Humpleupagus @madison @givenup Talking about kids and family stuff with women is easy to do. 🤷🏻♂️
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     ?? Humpleupagus ?? (humpleupagus@eveningzoo.club)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 22:17:13 JST ?? Humpleupagus ??

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     Making kids is even easier. 😏
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     BowserNoodle ☦️ (bowsacnoodle@poa.st)'s status on Tuesday, 24-Sep-2024 22:17:52 JST BowserNoodle ☦️

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     @Humpleupagus @madison @givenup True but that's frowned upon in public spaces