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    Aral Balkan (aral@mastodon.ar.al)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 01:58:56 JST Aral Balkan Aral Balkan
    • Eugen Rochko

    Dear @Gargron,

    A fediverse server called Threads* is violating mastodon.social’s second server rule:

    “2. No racism, sexism, homophobia, transphobia…
    Transphobic behavior such as intentional misgendering and deadnaming is strictly prohibited.”

    https://glaad.org/smsi/report-meta-fails-to-moderate-extreme-anti-trans-hate-across-facebook-instagram-and-threads/

    Can you please defederate from this server to protect the trans people on mastodon.social?

    Thank you.

    * PS. It’s run by these guys: https://techcrunch.com/2024/03/26/facebook-secret-project-snooped-snapchat-user-traffic/

    #mastodonSocial #fediblock #threads #meta #mastodon #transphobia

    In conversation about a year ago from mastodon.ar.al permalink

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      Facebook snooped on users' Snapchat traffic in secret project, documents reveal | TechCrunch
      from Lorenzo Franceschi-Bicchierai
      A secret program called "Project Ghostbusters" saw Facebook devise a way to intercept and decrypt the encrypted network traffic of Snapchat users to study their behavior.
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      YennyPenny1 (yennypenny1@mastodon.social)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 05:05:49 JST YennyPenny1 YennyPenny1
      in reply to
      • Eugen Rochko

      @aral @Gargron To dedicate time, effort and brain cells to formulate arguments against something that doesn't directly affect you baffles me . Why not just move away, block or ignore that which you can't understand? I'm neither pro or against trans people , it's their lives but this open outrage is getting out of control . I didn't need to read, write or see that. 😕

      In conversation about a year ago permalink
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      Aral Balkan (aral@mastodon.ar.al)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 05:05:49 JST Aral Balkan Aral Balkan
      in reply to
      • YennyPenny1

      @YennyPenny1 Right, why should we care about the well being of others, right? Excellent philosophy. Very caring. Very humane. *smh* Goodbye.

      In conversation about a year ago permalink
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      Aral Balkan (aral@mastodon.ar.al)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 07:13:11 JST Aral Balkan Aral Balkan
      in reply to
      • Eugen Rochko
      • Nick Walsh

      @NickWalsh @Gargron Hey Nick,

      Fuck off.

      Sincerely,
      Me

      In conversation about a year ago permalink
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      Nick Walsh (nickwalsh@social.vivaldi.net)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 07:13:12 JST Nick Walsh Nick Walsh
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      • Eugen Rochko

      @aral @Gargron New here.. .Can you explain how something typed on a screen can hurt anyone? Are you saying that some people are so fragile that words ruin them? If you are trying to make the platform WOKE, then just say it. People don't need to be here. If this is not a platform of free speech and fair debate, then just say it. Brand yourselves as extreme left. It is your right to be any flavor you want. If you think you can survive on that market, then go for it. I support your efforts. But don't ever think you can bully me into how I should think. That will never happen.

      In conversation about a year ago permalink
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      Aral Balkan (aral@mastodon.ar.al)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 16:07:03 JST Aral Balkan Aral Balkan
      in reply to
      • Eugen Rochko
      • william.maggos

      @wjmaggos @Gargron If the two links I provided in the original post do not meet your bar for defederation then there’s something wrong with your bar. It also tells me your instance is not a safe space for vulnerable groups. And if your instance happens to be the flagship one and you’re fine with this, it tells me you’re legitimising this behaviour on the greater network.

      In conversation about a year ago permalink
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      william.maggos (wjmaggos@liberal.city)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 16:07:04 JST william.maggos william.maggos
      in reply to
      • Eugen Rochko

      @aral @Gargron

      If we grow, there will always be a ton of people able to make a decent argument that something is racist, sexist, homophobic or transphobic. it will be endless battles between mods over what justifies action or else face defederation. and also tons of individuals having no idea they are silenced by entire servers. I get strict rules internally but servers blocking/silencing servers or individuals must require a higher bar and be done more transparently. #fediblockmeta

      In conversation about a year ago permalink
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      Mister Moo 🐮 (mistermoo@mastodon.online)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 16:10:36 JST Mister Moo 🐮 Mister Moo 🐮
      in reply to
      • Eugen Rochko

      @aral @Gargron Just to give the other side of this: there are probably a lot of pro-trans people who see server-level defederation of an instance as big as Threads as a draconian over-reaction in light of available user-level blocking tools. I just don't see any room in this thread for reasonable disagreement. It doesn't help that the few people I *am* seeing disagree are wearing their awfulness on their sleeves. Social media incentivizes a black-or-white viewpoint and I see tons of that here.

      In conversation about a year ago permalink
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      Aral Balkan (aral@mastodon.ar.al)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 16:10:36 JST Aral Balkan Aral Balkan
      in reply to
      • Eugen Rochko
      • Mister Moo 🐮

      @MisterMoo @Gargron And are all these pro-trans people who want to federate with Threads in the room with you now?

      In conversation about a year ago permalink
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      Aral Balkan (aral@mastodon.ar.al)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 16:18:12 JST Aral Balkan Aral Balkan
      in reply to
      • Eugen Rochko
      • monorail times

      @monorailtimes @Gargron You’re not confused, you’re privileged.

      In conversation about a year ago permalink
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      monorail times (monorailtimes@worldkey.io)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 16:18:13 JST monorail times monorail times
      in reply to
      • Eugen Rochko

      @aral @Gargron then don’t follow people on threads? I’m confused.

      In conversation about a year ago permalink
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      Aral Balkan (aral@mastodon.ar.al)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 20:05:56 JST Aral Balkan Aral Balkan
      in reply to
      • Ignacio (he) 🇪🇸🇺🇦🇪🇺

      @icg937 Gee, I guess it must be a conspiracy.

      In conversation about a year ago permalink
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      Ignacio (he) 🇪🇸🇺🇦🇪🇺 (icg937@mstdn.social)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 20:05:58 JST Ignacio (he) 🇪🇸🇺🇦🇪🇺 Ignacio (he) 🇪🇸🇺🇦🇪🇺
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      • Eugen Rochko

      @aral @Gargron Interesting that nobody puts on the table the third server rule:

      "3. No incitement of violence or promotion of violent ideologies...
      Support for violent groups or events is prohibited."

      While some usual suspects, like masto.nobigtech.es blatantly support Ukrainian genocide by Ruzzia and call nazis to Ukrainian people, and nobody asks for defederation. I wonder why :thonking:

      In conversation about a year ago permalink

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      Aral Balkan (aral@mastodon.ar.al)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 20:07:05 JST Aral Balkan Aral Balkan
      in reply to
      • eatyourglory

      @eatyourglory In the same way that defederating Gab is.

      In conversation about a year ago permalink
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      eatyourglory (eatyourglory@mastodon.uno)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 20:07:06 JST eatyourglory eatyourglory
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      @aral Genuine question, how is defederating threads protecting trans people?

      In conversation about a year ago permalink
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      darth_akeda (darth_akeda@mastodon.social)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 20:26:38 JST darth_akeda darth_akeda
      in reply to
      • Eugen Rochko
      • william.maggos

      @aral @wjmaggos @Gargron You mean vulnerable groups that don’t include Black and Brown people. There’s plenty of evidence regarding how they’ve been treated especially during the great Twitter migration, by many of the same people and instances worried about Threads, yet those instances weren’t defederated. I’m all for protecting people but clearly you guys are only about protecting white people. Didn’t see this outrage when Black people expressed their treatment

      In conversation about a year ago permalink
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      Aral Balkan (aral@mastodon.ar.al)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 20:26:38 JST Aral Balkan Aral Balkan
      in reply to
      • darth_akeda

      @darth_akeda Clearly, you’re making assumptions about people you don’t know. But I am white-passing and you probably assume I’m also American so I guess that’s why. (Hint: I’m from the part of the world that Americans bomb.)

      Anyway, so, needless to say, no, of course that’s not what I mean but I also don’t appreciate being attacked for what you assume me to be.

      In conversation about a year ago permalink
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      Aral Balkan (aral@mastodon.ar.al)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 20:27:30 JST Aral Balkan Aral Balkan
      in reply to
      • eatyourglory
      • Fabio Manganiello

      @fabio @eatyourglory Have you actually clicked the links in the post and read the articles?

      In conversation about a year ago permalink
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      Fabio Manganiello (fabio@manganiello.social)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 20:27:34 JST Fabio Manganiello Fabio Manganiello
      in reply to
      • eatyourglory

      @aral @eatyourglory I’m not sure if I agree completely with this statement.

      Defederating Gab, poa.st, cum.salon or RapeMeat was really a no-brainer.

      Those were instances created by trolls/fascists/homophobic/misogynist admins, and specifically dedicated to people who share the same ideas and the same ways of treating others.

      There’s literally no doubt of the ideology of a person who joins one of those instances: if you join Gab or poa.st, then it’s quite easy to identify your ideas as well.

      Can we say the same about Threads? Can we say that everybody there is a transphobic, or a Nazi, or a troll? Can we say that the admins explicitly embrace and actively promote these ideologies?

      When you have an instance with millions of accounts, you’re always statistically likely to get jerks. The questions that admins have to ask before defederating are:

      1. Are jerks a clear majority there?

      2. Are the failures at moderation due to the website administration actively promoting jerks (like it’s the case for Musk’s shithole), or are they due to the challenges of scaling up moderation, or to bars that are just set higher than many Fediverse admins?

      3. If we defederate it, what are the risks of cutting out a lot of useful traffic (like institutional accounts, or harmless accounts that are followed by many users on our instances)? In other words, does the signal/noise ratio justify sacrificing the signal in order to protect users from the noise?

      4. What are our thoughts about striking a balance between protecting our users from abuse vs. giving them a chance to connect to whoever they want to?

      I have the impression that for Threads the response to these questions is negative, at least for now.

      Of course, I’m monitoring the situation, and I’m ready to pull the drawbridge at the first signs that Threads has a negative net added value for the Fediverse.

      But that doesn’t seem the case for now IMHO (I actually see a lot of nice/decent people on Threads that are genuinely curious about the Fediverse), and I’m not sure if I would handpick a few cases of moderation failures to make an argument in favour of defederation (rather than individual blocks/bans/mutes).

      In conversation about a year ago permalink

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      Aral Balkan (aral@mastodon.ar.al)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 20:33:28 JST Aral Balkan Aral Balkan
      in reply to
      • eatyourglory
      • Fabio Manganiello

      @fabio @eatyourglory So you’re ok federation with a company that literally bought a VPN service so they could man-in-the-middle attack the encrypted communications of their users while they were using the services of their competitors. This is who you’re giving the benefit of the doubt to?

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      Fabio Manganiello (fabio@manganiello.social)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 20:33:30 JST Fabio Manganiello Fabio Manganiello
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      • eatyourglory

      @aral @eatyourglory I’m very well aware of Meta’s challenges with content moderation. And I definitely would like them to be called more accountable for this.

      I’m just challenging the idea that full defederation of a platform with millions of people is the right way to respond to these failures, or if more granular measures (blocks/mutes) can be implemented.

      Again, if the tree was rotten at its very roots (Gab, poa.st etc.), there would be no doubt about it.

      If the head of the platform was actively engaging and promoting hateful ideologies (like Musk), there wouldn’t be any doubt either.

      But for now I don’t see any such strong signals from Thread.

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      Bear (bear@social.bear.garden)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 20:55:49 JST Bear Bear
      in reply to

      @aral A lot of the people responding to your toot seemed to have skipped over the articles you linked to, and your point.

      Meta is not operating openly and they are not moderating effectively.

      😐

      In conversation about a year ago permalink
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      Elley Smith :vote: (jeze@kzoo.to)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 20:56:39 JST Elley Smith :vote: Elley Smith :vote:
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      @aral "but muh clout!" These people will sweep aside decades of Meta abuse to gain access to more clout/followers. It's shocking to me anyone on the fedi thinks this way given the culture here. If you want to clout chase numbers go to BlueSky or Twitter where that's the point of the platforms.

      They'll deny that this is the reason they want to federate with Threads, but also **of course that's the reason.** Humans are not complicated and are way more transparent in their actions than they think.

      In conversation about a year ago permalink
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      Aral Balkan (aral@mastodon.ar.al)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 21:06:58 JST Aral Balkan Aral Balkan
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      • Erik Jonker
      • Bear

      @ErikJonker @bear Of course. But when the flagship instance makes a choice, it means something. Should there be a flagship instance? No, that’s a design failure. But there is. So what they do matters. Mastodon.social federating with Meta/Facebook/Threads legitimises Meta/Facebook/Threads. One of the ways we said the fediverse (and Mastodon, initially) was different was that instances would protect people, not just leave them to fend for themselves.

      In conversation about a year ago permalink
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      Erik Jonker (erikjonker@mastodon.social)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 21:06:59 JST Erik Jonker Erik Jonker
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      • Bear

      @bear @aral ...but isn't the practical solution moving to another server that doesn't federate with threads, that's the nice part of the fediverse, you can make choices?

      In conversation about a year ago permalink
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      Asta [AMP] (aud@fire.asta.lgbt)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 21:20:36 JST Asta [AMP] Asta [AMP]
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      • eatyourglory
      • Fabio Manganiello

      @fabio@manganiello.social @aral@mastodon.ar.al @eatyourglory@mastodon.uno I don’t think viewing this as “a chance to make the fediverse more mainstream” is correct. This is the fediverse equivalent of the infamous casting couch: bluntly, we’re going to get fucked and get nothing out of it. Meta has enough lawyers, engineers, compute power and paid product managers to make sure he gets way more out of this than anyone else will. He doesn’t enter into arrangements this like unless he gets more out of it than he puts in. If the “plan” on the fedi end is 1. Federate, 2. ????, 3. Social media freedom, then there’s no way in hell the fediverse is going to end up the winner here.

      In conversation about a year ago permalink
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      Fabio Manganiello (fabio@manganiello.social)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 21:20:37 JST Fabio Manganiello Fabio Manganiello
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      • eatyourglory
      • Asta [AMP]

      @aud @aral @eatyourglory far from it, I want him called accountable for his unethical business practices, for his failures at moderation and for being a sociopath.

      It’s just that I don’t think that full defederation of a platform with millions of users, and giving up our chance of finally making the Fediverse more mainstream and stopping using other platforms to communicate with our friends and relatives, is the best solution.

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      Asta [AMP] (aud@fire.asta.lgbt)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 21:20:38 JST Asta [AMP] Asta [AMP]
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      • eatyourglory
      • Fabio Manganiello

      @aral@mastodon.ar.al @fabio@manganiello.social @eatyourglory@mastodon.uno so because Zuckerberg isn’t enough of a pathetic, desperate, insecure narcissist like Musk but instead a quiet sociopathic piece of shit, he gets to spread unfettered hate? lmao

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      Vinnie (any) (greenwhale@dice.camp)'s status on Thursday, 28-Mar-2024 21:29:15 JST Vinnie (any) Vinnie (any)
      in reply to
      • eatyourglory
      • Asta [AMP]
      • Fabio Manganiello

      @fabio @aud @aral @eatyourglory no server should have millions of followers. It goes against everything that makes the fediverse...well...diverse. The fact that servers can be held accountable is what drives the need for moderation, it's a tool in the arsenal of any decent admin. Threads takes a huge shit on all admins because they are monolithic. Threads takes away tools for moderation from all servers. That's why anyone with any sense should defederate now.

      In conversation about a year ago permalink
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      Aral Balkan (aral@mastodon.ar.al)'s status on Friday, 29-Mar-2024 01:24:07 JST Aral Balkan Aral Balkan
      in reply to
      • Eugen Rochko
      • madhadron

      @madhadron @Gargron Not my server, not my admins. But the flagship Mastodon server.

      In conversation about a year ago permalink
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      madhadron (madhadron@social.coop)'s status on Friday, 29-Mar-2024 01:24:08 JST madhadron madhadron
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      • Eugen Rochko

      @aral @Gargron Wait, your admins were stupid enough to federate with Facebook? Yeesh.

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      nonlinear (nonlinear@social.praxis.nyc)'s status on Friday, 29-Mar-2024 10:30:04 JST nonlinear nonlinear
      in reply to
      • Vinnie (any)
      • Sally Strange
      • eatyourglory
      • Asta [AMP]
      • Fabio Manganiello

      @SallyStrange @fabio @greenWhale @aud @aral @eatyourglory some people truly believe that if you voclly disagree with them, it's because you isn't her then correctly.

      Adds this with entitlement to a debate (it's right at the core of his natural immunity of ideas concept) and it's an issue.

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      Sally Strange (sallystrange@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Friday, 29-Mar-2024 10:30:06 JST Sally Strange Sally Strange
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      • Vinnie (any)
      • nonlinear
      • eatyourglory
      • Asta [AMP]
      • Fabio Manganiello

      @fabio

      Hilarious that you find your repetition in the face of varied stimuli a credit rather than an indictment

      @greenWhale @aud @aral @eatyourglory @nonlinear

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      Fabio Manganiello (fabio@manganiello.social)'s status on Friday, 29-Mar-2024 10:30:08 JST Fabio Manganiello Fabio Manganiello
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      • Vinnie (any)
      • Sally Strange
      • nonlinear
      • eatyourglory
      • Asta [AMP]

      @nonlinear @greenWhale @SallyStrange @aud @aral @eatyourglory read the whole thread. You’ll notice that I’ve repeated the same exact arguments multiple times. And every time my words were intentionally distorted, chopped and pasted in different ways to picture me as someone I’m not, just so I could fit into a readily available stereotype that many of my interlocutors had in mind.

      After repeating the same argument 10 times, and getting your own words manipulated all the 10 times, while being undeservely covered by insults by those who allegedly advocate for online safety, and being forcefully stereotyped by those who allegedly fight against prejudice, wouldn’t you show a little bit of frustration?

      Now tell me, which one is more offensive? “Gosh, the whole humankind must have suddenly become dumb” after countless attempts of manipulating my words and countless episodes of verbal aggression in response to my calm arguments, or “I hope a bacteria infects you and kills you” / “I hope a dog pisses in your eye”? Just to make sure that we’re using the same scales. At some point continuous provocation and aggression just reap their own deserved fruits.

      And btw, did you even bother to read the remaining text, or did you cherrypick that phrase in a sea of words and ignored the rest so I could also fit in one of your readily available prejudices?

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      nonlinear (nonlinear@social.praxis.nyc)'s status on Friday, 29-Mar-2024 10:30:09 JST nonlinear nonlinear
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      • Vinnie (any)
      • Sally Strange
      • eatyourglory
      • Asta [AMP]
      • Fabio Manganiello

      @fabio @greenWhale @SallyStrange @aud @aral @eatyourglory "the whole humankind must have suddenly become dumb" vs "they disagree with my ideas", which one will occam's razor choose? Stay tuned!

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      Fabio Manganiello (fabio@manganiello.social)'s status on Friday, 29-Mar-2024 10:30:11 JST Fabio Manganiello Fabio Manganiello
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      • Vinnie (any)
      • Sally Strange
      • nonlinear
      • eatyourglory
      • Asta [AMP]

      @nonlinear @greenWhale @SallyStrange @aud @aral @eatyourglory gosh, the whole human kind must have suddenly become dumb and unable to understand written English.

      I’ll try and repeat the concept in simpler words.

      Advocating for the empowerment of minorities is exactly the opposite of social darwinism.

      Telling your kid “it’s ok to go to your school friends’ party, or play with those of kids at the park, and if someone bullies you stand up for rights and let an adult know” is better than telling them “don’t interact with anyone outside of the safe circle that I’ve picked for you - 95% of the people out there should be mostly ok, but that 5% of risk that you may bump into an asshole is too hard for me to bear”.

      Empowerment and self-awareness only emerge when you are part of the world, not when you seclude yourself from it.

      And I’m not saying that minorities need more exposure to bigots - I’m saying that bigots need more exposure to minorities. Because many wouldn’t be bigots if they had sufficient exposure to people who don’t look or think like them, and they probably wouldn’t have much ground for dehumanizing them. It’s not a coincidence if far-right movements and prejudice are generally more radicated in sparsely populated rural areas than in culturally diverse and well mixed urban centers. Even the worst jerk in a large city is statistically likely to have at least an acquaintance who was born in a different country, has different sexual orientation or creed. And that makes them more unlikely to manifest prejudice.

      Oppression is fed by dehumanization. Dehumanization is fed by prejudice. Prejudice is fed by ignorance. And the best way to defeat ignorance is through exposure. It applies in the real world as well as the digital one.

      Of course, that doesn’t mean that it’s not everybody’s task (admins, authorities, other users, and society as a whole) to make real or digital plazas safe for everyone. More regulation needs to be in place to hold large platforms accountable for the abuse that happens on them (such laws are already present in most of the EU countries, but they could be improved). Instance admins and mods have to be ready to act on reports. And users eventually need to have all the tools to granularly filter what they want to see.

      Problems of oppression, prejudice, platform governance and moderation are not easy to solve, and it doesn’t mean that we should settle for the easiest solution - throw the baby away with the bathwater and prevent any contacts between an outside world perceived as hostile and a “safe haven” designed to shield us from any unpleasant encounter. This kind of awful simplifications belong to cults, not to healthy societies.

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      nonlinear (nonlinear@social.praxis.nyc)'s status on Friday, 29-Mar-2024 10:30:12 JST nonlinear nonlinear
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      • Vinnie (any)
      • Sally Strange
      • eatyourglory
      • Asta [AMP]
      • Fabio Manganiello

      @fabio @greenWhale @SallyStrange @aud @aral @eatyourglory dude is advocating for the natural immunity of abuse.

      protecting people from abuse make them weak and incapable of dealing with abuse.

      subjecting them to abuse make them stronger, and he is the one to decide it for them.

      it's social darwinism, all to enable a company notoriously for destroying all partners it touches. Not even Meta employees would defend it so intently.

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      Fabio Manganiello (fabio@manganiello.social)'s status on Friday, 29-Mar-2024 10:30:14 JST Fabio Manganiello Fabio Manganiello
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      • Sally Strange
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      • Asta [AMP]

      @aud @SallyStrange @aral @eatyourglory @greenWhale did I ever suggest that they are worth less? Quite the opposite. I’m saying that, even if you perfectly insultate them from all the assholes on the Internet, they’ll still meet assholes in real life. On the street. On the bus. At the mall. In their office.

      Insulating them from the rest of the world to protect them actually harms them. It makes them incapable of handling conflict. It makes them even more vulnerable.

      We should encourage them to get out of their shell, not to dig their own grave inside of it.

      They should know that they shouldn’t be scared of the sex-deprived incel who lives in his granma’s basements and posts pictures of his guns. They should know that they are better human beings than him. And that escaping in a safe bubble isolated from the world is the best undeserved gift that they could give to such losers.

      I’ve gone through more shit in life than equality posers like you can even imagine. Raised in a poor neighbourhood riddled with criminality. Raised in a fundamentalist cult that isolated me from the world for all of my childhood. Bullied in school for my identity when I was a teenager. I’ve migrated several times, and I’ve been subject to racial and social prejudice countless times. I’ve heard “go back to your home” more times than any human being deserves. Just because I don’t show the oppressed minority badge at every chance or I don’t write it in my bio, you have no fucking right of calling me a privileged white dude. Do we agree on this and will you shut the fuck up about your fucking assumptions about my background and alleged privilege from now on?

      Yet I’ve walked more distance in life than all the odds that played against me. And that’s NOT because I decided to take shelter in the isolation of my cult. Nor surround myself only with people like me. Nor go and beg for pity for my situation. I got far in life because at some point I understood that the only way to overcome trauma is to deal with it face to face, learn that being afraid of our oppressors is the best gift that we could hand to them, surround yourself with people who would support you, and move on.

      I hope that you don’t have kids, because the same line of reasoning applied to parenting would be a guarantee for child development failure. Telling marginalized people “don’t go on mainstream social media and don’t interact with anyone who’s there, because you may be bullied by jerks” is the same as telling your teenage kid “don’t go to the parties of your school friends and don’t play with other kids at the park, because you may be bullied by jerks”. Do you feel like kids raised like this will be more or less prepared to go through all the shit that this world holds for them once they grow up?

      Self-confidence and self-awareness only emerges when people confront their offenders and learn that they have nothing to fear from them. Be part of the world, not live in a parallel world.

      Your line of reasoning damages vulnerable people because it keeps them prisoners of cages that others built for them. Yours is not anything that resembles activism, because activism happens out there in the real world, openly standing on the side of the oppressed on the open square, barking in the face of the real fascists, humiliating them and showing everyone how insignificant they are as human beings, and how fragile their ideas actually are. Not shooting friendly fire on those who want to solve the same problems as you but propose a different approach, while staying in the cozy comfort of your isolated bubble, and fighting anything that may disturb that false sense of safety.

      You are not an activist, nor you are doing any good to the world. You don’t even know what it means to get your own life threatened by real thugs for defending someone you barely know from injustice. You are just a prisoner who is advocating for everybody to be locked in the same prison. A pathetic poser who is more aggressive and narrow minded than the worst fascist out there, and doesn’t even realize it.

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      • Fabio Manganiello

      @SallyStrange@eldritch.cafe @fabio@manganiello.social @greenWhale@dice.camp @aral@mastodon.ar.al @eatyourglory@mastodon.uno a regular Martin Luther King, Jr over here 😂

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      @fabio

      "I have done more for oppressed minorities, to grant everybody equal opportunities and to combat fascists in my whole life than an equality poser like you can even imagine in 100 years."

      Lol. Lmao.

      @greenWhale @aud @aral @eatyourglory

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      Fabio Manganiello (fabio@manganiello.social)'s status on Friday, 29-Mar-2024 10:30:18 JST Fabio Manganiello Fabio Manganiello
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      • eatyourglory
      • Asta [AMP]

      @aud @aral @eatyourglory @greenWhale get your shit together and wash up your mouth with caustic soda before ever attempting to talk to me again. I’m just sticking rational arguments together without ever getting personal. I expect the same level of respect.

      I have done more for oppressed minorities, to grant everybody equal opportunities and to combat fascists in my whole life than an equality poser like you can even imagine in 100 years. With my own money, with my own time, and even risking my own career and incolumity for people I didn’t even know.

      And I’ve done so because I’ve been myself among oppressed minorities, and a target of discrimination for most of my life, and I’ve started from a quite low spot in life too. Just because I don’t constantly show off my trauma, or slam an oppressed minority badge of honor on everybody’s face and ask for everybody’s pity, it doesn’t mean that I’m a privileged white guy who had daddy paying all of his bills, and doesn’t know what it means to be publicly discriminated.

      Don’t you even realize that YOU are the fascist jerk here?

      You talk so much about protecting oppressed minorities from aggression and prejudice, and yet you are the one who’s dumping a full page of aggressive scatology upon a stranger who has probably gone through more shit and prejudice than you - and all just because I’m trying to have a civilized conversation about the trade-offs between discoverability/connectivity and sealed insulation from any possible source of injury.

      You talk so much about preventive defederation, throwing the baby away with the bathwater if that’s the price to pay to make sure that nobody ever interacts with any potentially disturbing content, and you don’t realize that you’re just creating an unscalable and sealed safe bubble that does more harm than good. You probably wouldn’t tell vulnerable people to stay sealed in their houses only with their trusted friends around to avoid any contact or potential conflict with a potential jerk on the bus, at the mall or on the street. Yet that’s exactly what you’re advocating here, telling yourself the unforgivable lie that ascetic digital exclusion from the rest of the world is the best solution to strengthen the oppressed.

      You talk so much about diversity, and yet you are the one throwing insults (including the f words) at somebody who is on the same ideological camp as you, but who just so happened to reach a different conclusion than you on a certain problem, and is trying to rationally consider all the trade-offs of a difficult problem. You like diversity only as long as everybody’s conclusions are exactly aligned with yours, and you bark like a rabid dog at anyone who deviates from the only path that you feel it’s righteous, and you’re so busy enjoying the nauseous smell of your ideologically inconsistent farts that you don’t even realize that your aggressivity and your inability to engage into a civilized discussion with someone who disagrees with you on a particular topic makes YOU the true fascist here.

      Now just go back and re-read the messages you’ve sent me in this thread. Do you feel proud of them? Does your aggressive language show a good picture of you? Do you feel like your friends and family would be proud of you for showing such an ugly side to a perfect stranger on the Internet who just happened to disagree with you?

      If you can answer affirmatively at all of these questions, then please proceed at blocking me before I do that with you. It means that you belong to that extremist minority of the minority that takes pride of its purist ascetism and does more harm than good to the world.

      Otherwise, I expect an apology for your motiveless aggression.

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      • eatyourglory
      • Fabio Manganiello

      @fabio@manganiello.social @aral@mastodon.ar.al @eatyourglory@mastodon.uno @greenWhale@dice.camp and if you find me cursing at you more “disrespectful” than telling minorities their safety is worth less than your ability to avoid inconvenience… I mean, I’d say that’s an opportune time to reflect, but you lack that capacity.

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      Asta [AMP] (aud@fire.asta.lgbt)'s status on Friday, 29-Mar-2024 10:30:20 JST Asta [AMP] Asta [AMP]
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      • eatyourglory
      • Fabio Manganiello

      @fabio@manganiello.social @aral@mastodon.ar.al @eatyourglory@mastodon.uno @greenWhale@dice.camp you are not a friend to minorities; you are carrying water for white supremacy and capitalism and spilling it all over the rest of us.

      Enjoy the taste of pigeon shit.

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      Asta [AMP] (aud@fire.asta.lgbt)'s status on Friday, 29-Mar-2024 10:30:22 JST Asta [AMP] Asta [AMP]
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      • eatyourglory
      • Fabio Manganiello

      @fabio@manganiello.social @aral@mastodon.ar.al @eatyourglory@mastodon.uno @greenWhale@dice.camp actually, do you know what? You are a fucking asshole. You deserve to be told that, because valuing “growth” and “discoverability” makes you a fucking asshole. You say it’s not your responsibility to protect vulnerable people? You’re arguing it’s wrong to do so, you fascist piece of shit. The kind of internet you want, one where minorities are unsafe because you value convenience and growth, is a horrible thing.

      You would literally not even be here were it not for vulnerable people. Fuck you, fuck your dipshit privileged mindset. I hope a pigeon shits in your mouth this weekend, you ignorant tech bro piece of fucking garbage. You block ME, idiot; I’m not the one out here saying YOUR life is acceptable collateral damage, WHICH IS WHAT YOU ARE ARGUING FOR. God. You really dove to a new low for this one, you arrogant jar of fermented piss.

      Go take your “everything exists for me” mindset and jam it up your own ass.

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      Fabio Manganiello (fabio@manganiello.social)'s status on Friday, 29-Mar-2024 10:30:23 JST Fabio Manganiello Fabio Manganiello
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      • eatyourglory
      • Asta [AMP]

      @aud @aral @eatyourglory @greenWhale > And in the meantime, you expose tons of people to immediate danger (LibsofTikTok, etc).

      I feel like there’s a divergence in social network philosophy in the Fediverse community that is becoming hard to reconcile.

      Many believe that the primary goal of social media is to proactively shield vulnerable users from any possible forms of abuse or trauma. Even if that comes at the cost of proactively defederating whole instances that aren’t strictly aligned with our approach to moderation or with our ideology. Even if that means proposing to proactively defederate all the instances that run Pleroma/Akkoma software just because many of their contributors are perceived as too liberal (yes, somebody actually went as far as seriously proposing that). Even if that means harming discoverability, availability of content, or splintering the Fediverse into smaller bubbles and reducing its potential reach.

      I personally belong to the camp of those who believes that the primary goal of social media is to enable people to connect as easily as possible to others and discover content with the least amount of frictions, and give users enough power and tools to granularly decide what content they want to see.

      I want to minimize the harm to vulnerable users, but that shouldn’t come at the expense of everything else.

      The user is in charge. The user can block/suspend/mute/report anything they don’t like. Sure, in extreme cases drastic decisions ought to be taken, and a whole instance with 100s/1000s/10,000s of users needs to be defederated. But such extreme cases IMHO include things like poa.st, Gab or X itself, where the tree is truly rotten at its roots, where the admins themselves endorse violence/prejudice, and/or where, picking a random user out of their base, it’s statistically very likely that that user is an absolute jerk/sociopath.

      IMHO that doesn’t include Threads. Sure, Mark’s behaviour is something that we should keep a constant eye on. Sure, the higher the number of users, the higher the probability of bumping into jerks. But it’s just up to us to filter/mute/block/report them and move on. We don’t throw the whole platform away because of the sporadic jerks, because on such a large platform there are actually also people (like many of our real-life friends, or relatives, or journalists, scientists and politicians) who would add a lot of value to my feed, and the cost of losing all that content to me is much higher than the benefit that I would gain from making the Fediverse completely/proactively impermeable from the Libs of TikTok.

      It’s like taking a public bus in a busy city: the busier the bus, the higher the chance of bumping into some scum who throws racial or homophobic slurs to other travellers. In such conditions, depending on the magnitude of the offense, most of the people would either:

      1. Move to another seat
      2. Directly address the offender and call him/her out for being a jerk
      3. Report the offender to the bus driver (or the authorities)

      The alternative would be to stop taking public busses, and inviting everyone to stop taking busses as well, because the risk of bumping into potentially traumatizing confrontation with a sociopath is non-zero, and maybe criticize the bus operator for not preemptively preventing a potential fascist from taking the bus.

      Which of these two approaches sounds more reasonable to you?

      Plus, you can literally go on those platforms and talk about the fediverse… wait, you can’t! Because they seem to be actively suppressing those conversations.

      This isn’t true. After announcing support for Fediverse sharing for US, Canada and Japan, I’ve actually noticed that a lot of people on Threads started talking about the Fediverse. Many were wondering what it was. #Fediverse was among the most popular topics discussed on the platform. I saw even some people open up Mastodon accounts to test how the integration works.

      To be clear, I hate both the management of X and Meta from the bottom of my heart. But credit is due where it’s due. Musk used to mock “Masturbodon”, preemptively ban any Twitter accounts with a Fediverse handle in their profile, aggressively shut down one after the other all the APIs used by services like Birdsite to bridge tweets to the Fediverse, and basically prevented anybody from even talking about the Fediverse on its platform. Threads, on the other hand, invested a lot in building this integration, lets people talk about the Fediverse freely, it doesn’t mock it nor it’s aggressive towards us.

      Sure, it doesn’t mean that I trust them. It doesn’t mean that I support their way of developing this integration (through meetings with ActivityPub luminaries covered by NDAs rather than truly building in the open). It doesn’t mean that I don’t see risks in the future. But I don’t feel like it’s fair to put X and Threads in the same bucket when it comes to their approach towards the Fediverse just because they are both big and both run by very unpleasant human beings.

      Anyone on threads will see federated content through threads: through the slats in the fence, except they won’t even see the fence. They won’t see me at my tiny server; they’ll just see a random post I made.

      The alternative to “users on Threads will only see federated content through Threads” is “users on Threads won’t see anything outside of their bubble at all”. If they see your posts, there’s a non-zero chance that they’ll click on your profile and maybe follow up on your instance. If they don’t see your posts, this chance is much lower.

      You want people off corporate social media? Make a plan that’s better than theirs.

      I can’t make a plan that is better than theirs if they have all the content and all the users.

      I’ve spent a lot of time in the past couple of years trying to convince friends and relatives to do the jump.

      The questions I get from them usually aren’t along the lines of “is the protocol/source code open or closed?”, nor “what are the odds of bumping into jerks on that platform?”, nor “how will moderators/admins proactively prevent me from seeing potentially disturbing content?”

      No, most of the questions I get are along the lines of “can I still follow this celebrity/politician there?”, or “can I still talk to my relatives and friends from there?”, immediately followed by “how easy is it to use?”

      If the answers to all these questions are negative, then we’ve lost a user. It’s a war that we can’t win. If however there is some form of permeability between large corporate platforms and smaller federated platforms, and those who feel that it’s too hard to onboard on the Fediverse have an “easy path” to interact with its content, the offer becomes much more compelling.

      But in another, the existing pro-capital/corporate legal environment in many regions of the world means any company deserves scrutiny (particularly of their funding source).

      You can’t possibly scrutinize the funding sources of each single corporate entity that decides to join the Fediverse. And, even if you do, you’ll probably find some stinky hedge fund or VC money everywhere.

      For as much as I would love a Fedivese that is completely made up of no-profits and volunteers, I know that we’ll never get traction that way. If a business joins the ranks, then we get more attention and more content.

      The Flipboard case is a good one. But I could also add Wordpress, Tumblr, and many other companies that recently have either built an integration with the Fediverse, or are working on building it. I personally don’t see how they could threaten the Fediverse either. If the number of jerks on the Fediverse increases when these companies integrate their products, we can just block the jerks. If the number of jerks goes out of control, or if the company proves to be malignant in its intentions, we can block/defederate the domain. But I don’t see how the existence of businesses in our space could threaten our space. Eventually, users and admins have a lot of granular control, and they can decide what they want to see. The existence of businesses who use the ActivityPub protocol to publish their activities isn’t a threat to the Fediverse any more than the presence of businesses who use HTTP over TCP/IP is a threat to anyone who wants to run their own website.

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      @eatyourglory@mastodon.uno @aral@mastodon.ar.al @fabio@manganiello.social @greenWhale@dice.camp I don’t know anything about flipboard, so that’s certainly a different conversation in one sense. But in another, the existing pro-capital/corporate legal environment in many regions of the world means any company deserves scrutiny (particularly of their funding source).

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      @aud @aral @fabio @greenWhale I see. What do you think about federating with Flipboard? (a company)

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      @eatyourglory@mastodon.uno @aral@mastodon.ar.al @fabio@manganiello.social @greenWhale@dice.camp could be I misread or read something inaccurate, then. But even in that case, great: best way to get people off corporate social media is by going there and doing it, not by giving the corporation power here.

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      eatyourglory (eatyourglory@mastodon.uno)'s status on Friday, 29-Mar-2024 10:30:28 JST eatyourglory eatyourglory
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      • Asta [AMP]
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      @aud @aral @fabio @greenWhale Is Threads actually actively suppressing conversations about the Fediverse? Every time I go on there I just see posts about it.

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      Asta [AMP] (aud@fire.asta.lgbt)'s status on Friday, 29-Mar-2024 10:30:32 JST Asta [AMP] Asta [AMP]
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      • eatyourglory
      • Fabio Manganiello

      @fabio@manganiello.social @greenWhale@dice.camp @aral@mastodon.ar.al @eatyourglory@mastodon.uno “ then the best way is to have Mark let them take a walk outside of the fence he's built - and that's exactly what's happening now.”

      Citation needed, badly. And in the meantime, you expose tons of people to immediate danger (LibsofTikTok, etc). Plus, you can literally go on those platforms and talk about the fediverse… wait, you can’t! Because they seem to be actively suppressing those conversations. Anyone on threads will see federated content through threads: through the slats in the fence, except they won’t even see the fence. They won’t see me at my tiny server; they’ll just see a random post I made.

      Go prove some of these wild ass conjectures before you willingly throw minorities under the bus without a plan. You want people off corporate social media? Make a plan that’s better than theirs. Or a plan, at all. Yeah, some people might jump to new servers… but what’s much more likely is that Meta will utilise its new position in harmful ways. See: literally everything Meta has ever done

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      Fabio Manganiello (fabio@manganiello.social)'s status on Friday, 29-Mar-2024 10:30:33 JST Fabio Manganiello Fabio Manganiello
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      @greenWhale @aud @aral @eatyourglory I don't disagree with your argument. The larger the server, the harder it is to moderate effectively.

      On the other hand, discoverability, availability of content, and having a self-contained social platform that doesn't require us to open Facebook or Instagram, can only happen when we get a big platform plugged in. We can't expect to solve these problems by adding small instances of 10-100 users each to the pool. We've been trying this for a while, and it didn't really work.

      If we want all of our friends, relatives and elected politicians to be on the Fediverse, then the best way is to have Mark let them take a walk outside of the fence he's built - and that's exactly what's happening now.

      Eventually, I believe that higher adoption and ability to effectively moderate everything are mutually exclusive. We just need to pick which one we prefer.
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