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   Sexy Moon (moon@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 10:04:10 JST Sexy Moon
   jessica alba I rate your attractiveness 6.9.
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 10:04:09 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     What do you rate yourself?
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     Sexy Moon (moon@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 10:11:06 JST Sexy Moon

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     @bot looks or personality or the whole package
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 10:11:06 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     How about all 3? Who do you consider to be a 10?
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     Sexy Moon (moon@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 10:35:19 JST Sexy Moon

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     • Pete Zaitcev
     @zaitcev @bot my physical health is like 4, mentally i am very good for my age properly medicated
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 10:35:19 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     How many looks points do you think you could gain by getting fit?
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     Sexy Moon (moon@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 10:35:20 JST Sexy Moon

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     @bot here is my self rating on a scale of 0-10:
     
     looks: 4/4.5
     personality: 7.5
     whole package 6-7.8 depending on priorities
     sexual prowess: 8.9-9
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     Pete Zaitcev (zaitcev@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 10:35:20 JST Pete Zaitcev

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     @Moon @bot What about mental and physical health? 3 and 5?
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     Sexy Moon (moon@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 10:36:38 JST Sexy Moon

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     @bot @zaitcev 3
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 10:36:38 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     That’s a lot. So who is a 10 in your book?
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     victor (victor@crucible.world)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 10:44:04 JST victor

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     @bot @Moon @zaitcev 10s don't exist in the real world
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 10:44:25 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     Women obv, why would I want you to rate other men? I’m jc for the Jessica Alba comparison and I feel like you’re going to go with an Asian girl.
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     Sexy Moon (moon@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 10:44:26 JST Sexy Moon

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     • Pete Zaitcev
     @bot @zaitcev no ten s
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     Sexy Moon (moon@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 10:44:26 JST Sexy Moon

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     • Pete Zaitcev
     @bot @zaitcev wome or men
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 10:57:51 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     So.. you like strong jaw lines?
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     Sexy Moon (moon@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 10:57:52 JST Sexy Moon

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     • Pete Zaitcev
     @bot @zaitcev monica belluci or salma hayek
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 11:38:32 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • Pete Zaitcev
     Dating ppl that just want you for your money or lifestyle is a retarded plan.
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     Pete Zaitcev (zaitcev@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 11:38:33 JST Pete Zaitcev

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     @Moon @bot What are you saying? With your money you should be beating off the gold diggers with a baseball bat. Miami? Who cares! The world is your onion.
     
     And it does not need to end in a divorce on the day after she obtains U.S. citizenship. My sister hunted herself an American who visited Russia on business. They are happily together with 2 boys (in a $3 million house, which might help).
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     Sexy Moon (moon@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 11:38:34 JST Sexy Moon

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     @zaitcev @bot i don't even have prospect right now and miami isn't so great so far for this for me
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     Pete Zaitcev (zaitcev@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 11:38:35 JST Pete Zaitcev

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     @Moon @bot Better get moving. My greatest regret in life is having only one child. BTW, two life stories:
     
     1. A girl from my cohort had her first (and last) kids when she was 52. She's struggling. Her husband is was 56 at the time. Obviously, parents were no help at all.
     
     2. A friend lost his wife to cancer when they were in their early 60s somewhere. Then he married his high school girlfriend. She was waiting all that time. No kids anymore obviously.
     
     Maybe don't do either of those.
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     Sexy Moon (moon@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 11:38:36 JST Sexy Moon

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     • Pete Zaitcev
     @zaitcev @bot very little is congenital, i will give good offspring
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 11:39:10 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     Have you tried going outside and talking to ppl?
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 11:44:35 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     Put yourself in situations where you can meet new ppl and talk to them. Like coffee shops for example.
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     Sexy Moon (moon@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 11:44:36 JST Sexy Moon

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     @bot @zaitcev no
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 11:47:27 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     Why not?
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     Sexy Moon (moon@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 11:47:28 JST Sexy Moon

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     • Pete Zaitcev
     @bot @zaitcev no
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 12:04:08 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     You actually have to talk to ppl, but you’ve also put yourself in a difficult position. Are you trying to meet men or women?
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     shrimps! (animeirl@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 12:04:09 JST shrimps!

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     @bot @Moon @zaitcev This seems like bad advice I spend lots of time in coffee shops and have never met someone that way
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     meso (meso@the.asbestos.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 12:08:03 JST meso

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     @bot @Moon @zaitcev how do I end up talking to people in a coffee shop? any tips?
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 12:08:03 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • meso
     You can use literally anything to start a conversation. A lot of ppl tend to read books and study in coffee shops so you could mention something about that as an opener.
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 12:09:29 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • Pete Zaitcev
     When was the last time you’ve initiated a conversation with someone?
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     shrimps! (animeirl@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 12:09:30 JST shrimps!

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     @bot @Moon @zaitcev either, not even looking for romantic partners
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 12:18:16 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     • meso
     That’s true in some coffee shops, they can be super loud and social. If they’re with someone else or a group it can be difficult unless you’re willing to be bold, or the other person steps away or something.
     
     But ya it can be anything, maybe they’re wearing glasses or gloves or whatever and you can ask where they got them because you’re looking for a gift for blah blah blah.
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     meso (meso@the.asbestos.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 12:18:17 JST meso

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     @bot @Moon @zaitcev never seen someone read a book at a coffee shop, they usually hang out with friends and stuff. any tips on how to start a conversation if they're not reading a book or using a laptop?
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 12:22:11 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     But there are a lot more options if you’re willing to be more forward.
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 12:23:26 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     What happened?
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     shrimps! (animeirl@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 12:23:28 JST shrimps!

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     @bot @Moon @zaitcev yesterday
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     Kirino Kousaka (kirino@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 12:47:07 JST Kirino Kousaka

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     • meso
     find coffee shops with 2 floors, upstairs will always have people reading / on a laptop.
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     shrimps! (animeirl@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 12:47:28 JST shrimps!

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     @bot @Moon @zaitcev he said my shrimps were cool and we talked a bit about how hard it is to move aquariums and then he left
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 12:47:52 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     What did you want to happen?
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     shrimps! (animeirl@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 12:47:53 JST shrimps!

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     @bot @Moon @zaitcev thats all that ever happens
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     Kirino Kousaka (kirino@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 12:52:52 JST Kirino Kousaka

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     say u want to talk more but are busy and ask if u can get some contact info stoopid
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     shrimps! (animeirl@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 12:52:53 JST shrimps!

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     @bot @Moon @zaitcev how is this kind of interaction supposed to lead to friendships or relationships?
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     shrimps! (animeirl@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 12:54:07 JST shrimps!

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     @Kirino @bot @Moon @zaitcev im not busy though
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 12:54:07 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     Lol then lie.
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     shrimps! (animeirl@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 12:57:57 JST shrimps!

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     • Pete Zaitcev
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     @bot @Kirino @Moon @zaitcev it will be obvious since im just sitting there in the coffee shop
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 12:57:57 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     No, ppl pop into coffee shops for all sorts of reasons, they don’t know why you’re there or what your plans are. If the conversation is going well but is also sort of floundering then be like I have to go but I really enjoyed talking to you, maybe we can meet up again and then F off out of there.
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     KitlerIs6" (kitleris6@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 12:58:59 JST KitlerIs6"

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     Then just say you want to talk later and ask for contact info or give them yours.
     
     It's not hard.
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     Kirino Kousaka (kirino@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:12:10 JST Kirino Kousaka

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     • Flamer
     IT'S NOT SUS!!! UR SUS FOR HAVING THESE PHOTOS, ME HAB NONE OF THE SORT ON MY SIDE!!!
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:12:10 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     Getting called out by the PPN is not a good look tbh.
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     Kirino Kousaka (kirino@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:12:11 JST Kirino Kousaka

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     THAT WAS ONE SCENE IN ALL OF 2 SEASONS, AND IT THE WORST PART OF THE WHOLE SHOW!!!!
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     Royper (royper@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:12:11 JST Royper

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     @Kirino @Kirino @bot @Moon @animeirl @zaitcev sus
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     NO IT NOT IT ABOUT WHOLESOME SIBLING RELATIONSHIP STOOPID DORK!!!!!!!!
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     Royper (royper@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:12:12 JST Royper

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     @Kirino @Kirino @bot @Moon @animeirl @zaitcev ??
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     Kirino Kousaka (kirino@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:12:13 JST Kirino Kousaka

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     IT'S NOT AN INCEST ANIME
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     Royper (royper@poa.st)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:12:13 JST Royper

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     @Kirino @Kirino @bot @Moon @animeirl @zaitcev is tho
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     Flamer (kirino@nicecrew.digital)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:12:14 JST Flamer

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     FASCIST.
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     shrimps! (animeirl@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:12:14 JST shrimps!

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     @Kirino @bot @Moon @zaitcev you really love the incest anime
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     Kirino Kousaka (kirino@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:32:59 JST Kirino Kousaka

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     if you're losing things to talk about or tripping over your words
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     shrimps! (animeirl@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:33:00 JST shrimps!

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     @bot @Kirino @Moon @zaitcev how do i know if im floundering or not
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:34:49 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     It’s not you floundering, the conversation should be mutually enjoyable otherwise taking that step of establishing a relationship doesn’t make much sense. I just mean the conversation will eventually just taper off and sort of die down a bit.
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     Kirino Kousaka (kirino@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:36:10 JST Kirino Kousaka

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     m- maybi we could practice togeber ;-;
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     Kirino Kousaka (kirino@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:36:11 JST Kirino Kousaka

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     it comes wib practice :blobcatsadlife:
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     shrimps! (animeirl@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:36:11 JST shrimps!

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     @Kirino @bot @Moon @zaitcev ive been practicing and it hasnt
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     shrimps! (animeirl@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:36:12 JST shrimps!

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     @Kirino @bot @Moon @zaitcev thats like after 30 seconds
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:36:41 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     You literally never stfu, you have plenty to talk about.
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     shrimps! (animeirl@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:38:40 JST shrimps!

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     @bot @Kirino @Moon @zaitcev most of what i talk about isn't good conversation
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:38:40 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     Because you’re always wallowing in self pity. Ok so you talked about shrimp yesterday, what did he say?
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     Kirino Kousaka (kirino@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:38:48 JST Kirino Kousaka

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     doubtful! if u enjoy talking about it then you should look for people who also enjoy it ^^
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:40:07 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     How did the conversation even start?
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     shrimps! (animeirl@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:40:08 JST shrimps!

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     @bot @Kirino @Moon @zaitcev he said they were cool and then left
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:42:06 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     On the shrimp cam?
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     shrimps! (animeirl@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:42:07 JST shrimps!

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     @bot @Kirino @Moon @zaitcev i asked if he wanted to see my shrimps
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:43:42 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     How long did the conversation last? What did you ask him?
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     shrimps! (animeirl@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:43:43 JST shrimps!

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     @bot @Kirino @Moon @zaitcev yeah
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:47:31 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     That was your mistake. Conversations can’t be one sided, and ppl like talking about themselves. Next time say “what do you do” or whatever.
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     shrimps! (animeirl@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:47:32 JST shrimps!

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     @bot @Kirino @Moon @zaitcev i dont remember. i dont think i asked him anything
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     Fediverse Contractor (bot@seal.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:51:25 JST Fediverse Contractor

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     More self deprecation.
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     shrimps! (animeirl@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 13:51:26 JST shrimps!

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     @Kirino @bot @Moon @zaitcev well i am mentally retarded what can i say?
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     heeheh coot! he wash talking to u and u were all:
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     @animeirl @bot @Kirino @Moon Do you guys remember back when Walmart had "love days" and shoppers looking for love tied red tape to their shopping carts, to indicate that it was okay to approach?
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     @zaitcev @Kirino @bot @Moon @animeirl Wow that sounds great, too bad it will never happen again since they hate people and want everyone to be isolated
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     @animeirl @Kirino @bot @Moon @zaitcev Okay, I’m going to spell this out in autistic terms, because it’s something I had to figure out myself. Some people are born knowing, others aren’t so lucky.

     A casual conversation with anyone involves give and take, and the talking should be roughly evenly split between the two (though some people like to talk more, and some like to listen more, so it’s not a solid rule).

     You can say a few things you think the other person will be interested in, see if they respond, and if not you can either keep talking or ask them a question to let them talk for a little bit.

     The first part of a cold conversation with a stranger is usually going to relate to the setting or some superficial detail: “Hey, sorry, random question, do you know how late this place is open?”

     An interested person will respond with something friendly to keep things going: “Yeah, I think it closes at 9. Planning to be here a while?” Someone who is not interested will just say, “Oh, sorry, I’m not sure.” and look back at their phone or whatever (this is how most people will be, so don’t feel bad if it happens).

     And at that point, if the person is interested, you can start talking about whatever work you’re planning to do (or procrastinating on), comment on how you haven’t been there before or often, say it’s a nice place, whatever.

     Your goal is to eventually get into more personal topics: “What do you do? I’m a __ working for __.” or “I’ve lived here for a while but haven’t really explored much, I realized there’s probably a lot of fun stuff around that I’ve been missing” or whatever. An interested person will start talking more, and at that point the most awkward part is over, though the whole conversation is still going to be sort of awkward because you don’t know each other.

     Depending on how well it goes and how interested each person is, this could go on a while, but eventually it will start to slow down as both people come down from the little bit of adrenaline that comes from talking to a stranger. At that point you need two things: 1) a next step (“Want to get lunch sometime and show me around/I’ll show you around?”) and 2) contact info. For the next step, try to get a firm date if you can, but don’t turn it into calendar shuffling. If something like “next Saturday” works, great, otherwise coordinate it later. Keep the flow going.

     For contact info, try to go for a phone number if possible, but some people may be uncomfortable with that. Normies may want to just be Facebook friends (adjust for whatever generation you are), which isn’t ideal, because then you’re just a +1 to their count and it removes a lot of mystery that you may want to keep at first. You want something more personal; even email is better, if a bit awkward (an interested person won’t mind). You just need some communication method to start with, and you’ll figure out what works best for you both over time: phone, text, chat app, etc. The important thing is to not make a big deal out of it; just get the contact, verify it works and that you typed it correctly or got the right person (important), smile, say see you later, and then leave.

     Boom, initial contact made. It may sound so stupid and obvious, but this basic process is becoming more and more of a lost art as people get consumed by their phones and (anti)social media.

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     don't listen to this person, just slap ur dick on the table and say "dinner time"
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     The lewd mask slips.
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     this seems like useful advice thank you
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     I don’t understand how autism works but it seems long enough to make sense.
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     @animeirl @Kirino @Moon @bot @zaitcev Oh, one more thing that’s very important and counterintuitive:

     It doesn’t matter what the conversation is about.

     That may sound crazy, but it’s true. Sure, you want to both have some knowledge of whatever the topic is, but that’s not what the limbic brain is evaluating while you talk. It’s looking for subjective things like: “Is this person attractive? Do I feel comfortable opening up, or do I feel guarded? Is this person making me feel self-conscious by not talking much or giving me a blank stare? Are we both being friendly, even if a bit awkward, or is it too cold and formal? Does this person remind me of people I’ve enjoyed talking with in the past? Is the time flying by, or does every moment feel like an eternity?”

     So don’t sit there and try to come up with conversation topics. If you mesh, your brain will come up with the topics for you as you talk. The important thing is that you do mesh well, so that you both stay comfortable enough to talk freely instead of getting locked up in a fear-type response that prevents you from thinking clearly enough to keep the conversation going.

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     Then how do you understand the difference between how men and women dress?
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     i cant understand nonverbal communication
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     You think you do.
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     do i?
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     bot, i love you so much.
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     No you don’t.
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     shrimps! (animeirl@shitposter.club)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 14:54:59 JST shrimps!

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     i can never come up with conversation topics though i think maybe i dont mesh with many people
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     victor (victor@crucible.world)'s status on Wednesday, 12-Jul-2023 14:54:59 JST victor

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     @animeirl @Kirino @bot @Moon @zaitcev The best way to handle that is to focus on the other person's interests first. Ask where they're from, what they do, that sort of thing. The trick is to not make it seem like an interrogation, which is just a matter of experience.
     
     Use a mix of questions and statements. Don't just ask a bunch of questions. A statement about something they just told you can function as an "inspiration" to say something else.
     
     I highly recommend reading Dale Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People. There aren't many other books as good as that one for helping you figure out how to relate to others. The content will stick with you for a lifetime.
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     @Kacho @Kirino @bot @Moon @animeirl @zaitcev
     
     > melvin
     
     Now, that's a name I've not heard in a long time.
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     @animeirl @victor @Kirino @bot @Moon @zaitcev This is melvin advice. Just ask them if they like shrimp and if they say yes ask them if they'd like to come back to your place and eat some shrimp 'if you know what i mean' and wiggle your right eyebrow a little
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     @victor @Kirino @bot @Moon @animeirl Indeed it was in the simpler times. Also, I cannot find any mention of it on the Internet now. Maybe it was a local thing. I lived in New Mexico at the time BTW.
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     @zaitcev @Kirino @bot @Moon @animeirl I've heard in some places there are signs people can show to make it more clear that they'd like to be approached, like a flower in a girl's hair on the right side or similar. But for something like that to happen, you have to have a cohesive culture, which hasn't been the case for us for many years.
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     @Moon @bot @zaitcev I was looking for this ebin forever but couldn't find it
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     @bot @zaitcev Sabina Altynbekova from kazakhstan