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   Butterfly_tsuji (butterfly_tsuji@spinster.xyz)'s status on Saturday, 27-May-2023 07:44:08 JST Butterfly_tsuji

   im so tired of reading crazy stores of woman where the explicitly describe, even abuse where a man makes them bleeds, sends them to the fucking hospital then they go “ but its not abuse” like…… this is just a disturbing level of cognitive dissonance, total lack of any self preservation…how they hell do you get to this point ? [doesn’t excuse the abuser but what is going on in the brain…even babies have basic self preservation skills..like wtf]

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     Butterfly_tsuji (butterfly_tsuji@spinster.xyz)'s status on Saturday, 27-May-2023 07:44:06 JST Butterfly_tsuji

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     @GrumpyOldNurse I think men are just in love with their abusive behavior- same reason why they bond over rape/deep fakes/spy cam etc video’s…or why gang rape is a thing. Male violence towards woman is males love language to each other.

     I’ve seen this described towards those Alpha male groups as well, like the hate woman so much , some woman suggest they just might be gay ? Ann Slatz said something about it…ill have to look it up. I doubt Id find it …to many twitter post….have you heard that before though ?

     I think it similar to the Homosexual transexual-pre trans cult/that changed because they have bisexual [closet gay ?] lovers that hate they like men and basically force their ay BF to tranisition. What are they called…Gimps ? [ igogled gimp and the definition is different ..do you know what im talking about ? can’t recall the word] but~ that’s more about men…

     im trying to think what happened to the human females basic self preservation

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     Butterfly_tsuji (butterfly_tsuji@spinster.xyz)'s status on Saturday, 27-May-2023 07:44:06 JST Butterfly_tsuji

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     @GrumpyOldNurse I found Anna’s tweet, it wasn’t as deep as I remember lol. I still think its relevant to men like…hating woman in a weird way because they might just be gay ? lol have you heard of Sneako ? alpha male youtuber who is also an example “misogynsit male that hates woman in a ‘might be gay way”<— really their needs to be a word for it. Its like a very specific phenonomom ppl are noticing

     IT NEEDS TO BE STUDYIED 🤓

     https://twitter.com/Slatzism/status/1646520655368839168

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     Butterfly_tsuji (butterfly_tsuji@spinster.xyz)'s status on Saturday, 27-May-2023 07:44:07 JST Butterfly_tsuji

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     @GrumpyOldNurse Dude I read a particular erotica in highschool called Black Dagger Brotherhood 😂 , I read a few more but BDB stands out. Its like a vampire smut romance for woman and while some of it was good ? Their is a lot of predator behavior in erotica, or just straight up rape. I still recognized it as rape even if the author romanticized it. Id go on goodreads and read the arguments for the reviewers for who loved xyz serious, who is stupidly incapable of comprehended the abuse…

     I don’t want to be like im a special snowflake😅 but seriously why did , I and a few other woman, teen girls see that shit for what it is but other couldn’t ? again we are reading the same media…so im just wondering what is happening ?

     What experience did the [not easy to gaslight] group have that others did not ?

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     Matron of the ninth circle (grumpyoldnurse@spinster.xyz)'s status on Saturday, 27-May-2023 07:44:07 JST Matron of the ninth circle

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     @Butterfly_tsuji Right?
     
     But, then, some people think Every Breath You take is a romantic song. So, yikes.
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     Matron of the ninth circle (grumpyoldnurse@spinster.xyz)'s status on Saturday, 27-May-2023 07:44:08 JST Matron of the ninth circle

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     @Butterfly_tsuji Something is broken, at a societal level, with the romanticization of abuse.
     
     My reading tastes are, mostly, trashy and escapist. But, it's actually a bit challenging to find a romance novel without an element of abuse. I even read a review recently where the reviewer (ostensibly a woman) said something about how she likes when the heroine suffers, because that makes the grovel sweeter. My hand to God, I don't know what to say about that level of internalized misogyny.