Notices by Cayhr (cayhr@varishangout.net), page 2
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Cayhr (cayhr@varishangout.net)'s status on Saturday, 07-Oct-2023 03:21:09 JST 
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@lina I think generally it's received indifferently. Of course, the internet =/= reality, and that term is only something we see perpetuated online. At worst it probably causes confusion.
And yeah it's not as powerful as "nigger" but you can't deny that the term is rather insulting. The romance languages are what they are because of the male/female typing, and this is basically coercing change in the language. -
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Cayhr (cayhr@varishangout.net)'s status on Saturday, 07-Oct-2023 03:11:16 JST
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@lina Haha, what was the outcome? Indifference? Confusion? -
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Cayhr (cayhr@varishangout.net)'s status on Saturday, 07-Oct-2023 03:09:04 JST
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Cayhr (cayhr@varishangout.net)'s status on Wednesday, 20-Sep-2023 11:36:04 JST
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@lina Hmm yeah, she's kinda weird, but honestly I don't mind since she *is* the bestiary NPC. I mean, there are also werewolf enemies in the game.
Though I do agree the furry transformation stuff isn't my cup of tea; I much prefer her to stay a busty chocolate girl. But again it's just the characterization and really not far off from any anime girl that has ears, tails, and can transform.
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Cayhr (cayhr@varishangout.net)'s status on Wednesday, 20-Sep-2023 11:24:28 JST
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@lina I don't remember what happened with the Zoologist NPC? :yoko_think:
With regards to the gender change potion (more correctly the "Sex Change Potion"), it is pink and blue, two colors primarily used to associate female and male children, respectively. It's also a swirly solution so no flag. Additionally, there is no way to edit a character except mid-game, so this is the only way to do it unless you have a save edit software, which is third party.
Also lmao 40% to kill user. :guraKekw:
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Cayhr (cayhr@varishangout.net)'s status on Wednesday, 20-Sep-2023 11:20:28 JST
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@Meemoo What I like about this statement is that they put their money where their mouth is. Bam, $200k out and $2k/month to support those projects.
So... yeah, good job. lol -
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Cayhr (cayhr@varishangout.net)'s status on Monday, 31-Jul-2023 11:13:30 JST
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@luithe Sometimes I make a character (male or female) that fits into the world. Sometimes I self-insert or come up with a guy character if I choose to go badass mode. Sometimes I make a girl if the game lets me dress her up and be awesome with her (in this case I like to use my mascot character in games such as MHW, with mods).
It just depends... :popuko_nod:
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Cayhr (cayhr@varishangout.net)'s status on Saturday, 29-Jul-2023 13:08:27 JST
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@smugumin [Wow I ended up ranting, LONG] What I hate most about the pronouns is the appeal to triviality. "It's just some pronouns how hard is it to respect them?" What people don't really seem to understand is that pronouns are very important, and play so much more of a role in our social dynamics than just "I identify as," which is an insult to reality and the truth. Furthermore, it's used twofold.
First is that it's a psychological validation mechanism for transsexuals and the varieties of mental illness. In real life, just telling everyone you are a "she" when people can clearly see you are a "he" does not work. Not to mention the look of confusion someone will get if you say you are a "xir," or non-binary. Even if said tranny is Thailand's hottest model, getting naked will reveal the truth exactly 100.00% of the time (a medical approach via DNA/skeletal inspection works too). At least with internet anonymity these kinds of people get a bit more power. Even if someone is not a tranny, the practice became normalized through coercion and social engineering, so if they alone are not enough to validate their existences, using other/hetero people to practice announcing their pronouns aids them in that endeavor. That's the insidious part of it all; people were strongarmed into their pledge of allegiance.
Second is that it's a political weapon. If you "misgender" someone, you are either not in the know or intentionally refuse to use someone's pronouns. Both are flags to THAT SIDE that the "misgenderer" is an enemy. And then they go ALL OUT to purge that individual, both men and women (lol, feminists fell down the hierarchy of victimization points). This makes you have to think: Why can this side of the political aisle get away with ruining someone's life for a tiny infraction, citing hyperbolic discomfort and attacks against their feelings, but when we start noticing patterns of bad actors or endorsers/condoners of said bad actors, we get chastised for being evil? Almost like the game is stacked in one side's favor.
On the internet, defaulting to the pronoun "he" is more than just an allusion to the fact that majority of internet users were men (and still is, no source needed), it was also a survival tactic. Catfishing is a legitimate problem, and you could lose valuable time and assets. Default pronoun "he" is the product of assuming everyone on the internet is a guy.
I don't know what the reason is in real life, but I know professional literature did use to default to "he" when describing an ambiguous entity such as "the player." Maybe it's a case of "most likely scenario," and tie breakers default back to he. In the more unsullied corners of the internet like obscure code documentation, I've noticed the appearance of language where "users" are default referred to as "he" and "him." Based. And while "they" would still be grammatically correct, I have adapted to the tactics of the enemy, and tend to use he/she to specify ambiguous nouns now.
So at the end of it all, pronouns in bio = pattern of bad actors. That includes @jarofrubies, who... seems to have clearly not followed his own advice, lol. If users are to go to misskey and leave behind Twitter culture, then that means exactly that: Twitter culture. Annoying language of Twitter, pledges of allegiance in the bio, and everything else. By the way, you know the heavy influx to misskey is a bandwagon thanks to JP Twitter, because there are plenty of other Japanese instances. Why only misskey? If there's anything the JP users should be understanding, is that they should be watching misskey's immigrarnt population very closely (which technically includes me; I recently reserved a name there like I did on pawoo and a few other instances).
Lastly, there are people that are sick and tired of the back and forth. Do you know why it keeps happening? Because no one is willing to put the foot down and stop the spread of cultural rot. At least on this side of the fedi, people are vocal about it. :reimu_sigh:
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Cayhr (cayhr@varishangout.net)'s status on Saturday, 29-Jul-2023 13:08:25 JST
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@ChristiJunior >dumber
Nonsensical language, promoting falsehoods, and encouraging self-destructive acts. ✅
>uglier
Actively celebrated destruction of beauty (especially feminine and natural) ✅
>less free
Coerced speech, difficulty navigating to find mates (because which one is a real woman?), and social pressure to change your entire mentality and habits around said individuals ✅
:reimu_sigh:
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Cayhr (cayhr@varishangout.net)'s status on Thursday, 09-Mar-2023 16:36:59 JST
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@Kyonko802 They hate it until it conforms to their worldviews. Some take the alternative approach to infiltration and attach themselves to the IP, but with agenda-driven motives.
It’s like the Guilty Gear “fans” that attach themselves to it because of Testament and Bridget (being vandalized by his own creator).
Or the “true Xenoblade fans” that attack anyone that calls Yuzuhira a “she.”
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Cayhr (cayhr@varishangout.net)'s status on Sunday, 13-Nov-2022 14:18:29 JST
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@luithe @RehnSturm256 GUNNTHRA MATURE ONEESAN IS SEX AND LATER PROMOTE TO WIFE TO BECOME MOMMY :mumei_hyperpat:
Bonus Laegjarn in 2v1 paizuri :hypercum: -
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Cayhr (cayhr@varishangout.net)'s status on Friday, 11-Nov-2022 08:34:33 JST
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@luithe >Environmental policies, minority rights, traffic safety, anti-hate speech regulations, free meals at schools, etc.
Holy macaroni a straight up socalist freak :senko_scream:
Yeah it's 7 days old, but.. it's the first I've seen it.
@Misato You've seen this? -
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Cayhr (cayhr@varishangout.net)'s status on Tuesday, 08-Nov-2022 07:42:03 JST
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@MoeBritannica Broo :shinobu_kaka: -
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Cayhr (cayhr@varishangout.net)'s status on Tuesday, 20-Sep-2022 06:57:42 JST
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@Halo I had to learn all of this after high school because the US education system teaches you jack squat (they also brainwashed me into worshipping Obama in elementary school).
Also, on your other reply: yeah, but at least get a good amount of down. Plus, houses are different from pay-later for almost literally everything. I think the worst things I've seen are young adults taking out loans for cars... while also having loans for university. :senko_disgust: -
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Cayhr (cayhr@varishangout.net)'s status on Tuesday, 20-Sep-2022 06:53:29 JST
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@Halo No I want it now and I don't want to be responsible for the consequences :soy_cry: -
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Cayhr (cayhr@varishangout.net)'s status on Tuesday, 20-Sep-2022 06:53:28 JST
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@Halo Virgin immediate satisfaction vs chad delayed gratification -
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Cayhr (cayhr@varishangout.net)'s status on Tuesday, 20-Sep-2022 06:53:27 JST
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@Halo Debt is the worst lifestyle I have ever seen promoted in a society. It's actually disgusting. -
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Cayhr (cayhr@varishangout.net)'s status on Tuesday, 20-Sep-2022 06:53:26 JST
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@Halo BANK RUUUUUUUUUUUUNS -
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Cayhr (cayhr@varishangout.net)'s status on Tuesday, 20-Sep-2022 06:53:25 JST
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@Halo Economic/financial illiteracy? Immediate gratification? Who knows. All I know is, I minimize as much debt as much as possible: both financial and social. Social would be things like returning favors and I-O-U's. -
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Cayhr (cayhr@varishangout.net)'s status on Tuesday, 20-Sep-2022 06:53:22 JST
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@Halo @kilostere @DarkMahesvara >live in the city
>$1k deposit just to be considered
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