Notices by Luci for Chai Tea (zens@merveilles.town)

@kirch 96x96 is the magic number

@tris can you make touching the nub type “dkkddjskskhdksksjsjd”

@tris it’s cute, the reason i have a ready answer is my macbook keyboard is failing in a similar fashion you see.

@NanoRaptor they renamed “being a slut” after me.

@tris maybe a short somewhere around the E key could be doing this. the way keyboards work is they can only disambiguate one key from another by reading the matrix over time. if one or two lines in the matrix is stuck closed it may have trouble disambiguating

@darwinwoodka @amydiehl apparently.. 20% of the US economy is supported by the unpaid labor of women. If we acknowledge that women are essentially the same as men it may just dosrupt that and I am all for it.

@ocdtrekkie i could claim credit for it but i think i
was channeling a demon

and aside from that there were ample opportunities to say “oops”, or even.. gasp. “sorry” after they noticed I added details.

what is with people being allergic to apologizing to me. how do these people get the reputation of being trans allies with that attrocious lack of accountability for fuck ups

you’ve heard of the Tone Police

get ready for the Tone-Antifa

“oh then why don’t you act more polite like a cis woman would”

because the expectation that women need to act demure and submissive to be listened to is the misogynistic world I am trying to fucking dismantle, you macrame skittle

you know how I KNOW this is misogyny? because speaking in an abrupt and confident, even a little aggressive tone got me MORE respect and MORE listened to back when I was presumed male.

So Much Pain And Heartache
Could Be Avoided

If You Just Took A Breath Before Hitting The Reply Button To Tell Luci She’s A Hysterical Overreacting Bitch And Maybe Consider That I Actually Have A Fucking Point; That You Are Predisposed To Not Hearing Because You Don’t Like Women Who Speak Up Confidently Without Fluffing Your Balls First

@tobi @jonny @oliphant i took a moment to slow down and notice what jonny’s PR does:

it explicitly defeats gotosocial’s reply controls! so abuse doesn’t just get hidden away from us but actually can be dealt with.

that’s how it’s done, everyone give jonny a round of applause and GTS a rotton tomato

to me, it works either way. they were a dismissive dick even if they were replying to only “it’s just not good enough”

the details were a courtesy. the fact that this shit needs to be explained over and over again to the people making decisions about this software is indefensible

“the screenshot is misleading because you edited the post from saying only ‘it’s not good enough’ to add an explanation for why it’s not good enough”

so you think it’s defensible for a software dev to be a dismissive dick if the reporter isn’t fast enough in adding details to their report?

yep i reported the admin of an instance for misogynistic concern trolling. I get it.

this
place
is
structurally
fucked
up

@moanos well, you’re just not interested in understanding anything then. you only asked me questions to waste my time

@moanos if you can’t unpack your privileges to see how tobi fucked up really bad here, You can consider sitting down and shutting up instead of begging me to explain why this is dismissive misogyny when it should be obvious what happened here was gross to anyone with eyes

@moanos bottom line: this reply control feature is worse than doing nothing. And i can explain in detail why but having to do that over and over to comfortable white dudes is getting really fucking old

@moanos it’s not good enough, and to be explicit “we can’t do that because of federation” is just a cowardly way of saying they don’t want women, queer people or black people to feel safe on the fediverse.

the reason you don’t understand what is happening is your privilege doesn’t let you see tobi fired the first shot with “there’s no way to prevent that because federation” is a statement of extreme and malicious apathy towards marginal.

it was an attack on *me* personally and on my friends