We won't be attending a wedding we've been invited to down in the US.
Would I end up in a detention cell by going through the US border? How would my family and friends deal with this stressful scenario? My husband is Asian. We are a gay couple. We are at greater risk of being bullied by CBP/ICE. Most of them are ultra-conservative.
Even these "additional checkpoints" seem like harassment.
https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/british-columbia/us-bc-border-checkpoint-1.7528402