If anyone in Britain is in the market for an ungendered, nonbinary-compatible marriage ceremony and paperwork, the Quaker marriage vows and marriage certificate do not require use of gendered terms such as “husband” and “wife”, and the latest version of the vows (2015) even allows for avoiding gendered pronouns:
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Jae (considermycat@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Monday, 07-Jul-2025 23:53:54 JST
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Jae (considermycat@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Tuesday, 17-Jun-2025 19:37:50 JST
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Wow. I hadn’t realised just how “mask off” Bi Dot Org had gone. I hadn’t even realised they had my email address, but I just got an email from their “Queer Majority” project promoting their “Heretics” issue – featuring Julie Bindel and a range of other “gender critical” writers. Guest edited by “gender heretic” Ben Appel, who of course managed to get a book published about how he’d been “silenced” as a “cis white gay”
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Jae (considermycat@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Friday, 06-Jun-2025 22:13:34 JST
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Feeling wistful for 18 April 1930 again
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Jae (considermycat@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Friday, 30-May-2025 01:19:58 JST
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Today in #BoringDystopia
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Jae (considermycat@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Thursday, 01-May-2025 20:57:45 JST
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This needs a third arm, labelled “Morris Dancers”
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Jae (considermycat@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Thursday, 13-Mar-2025 01:55:00 JST
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@silverwizard @foolishowl But then you do need to have the characters behave in believable ways, rather than just pushing them around to keep things exciting for Sweeps Week
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Jae (considermycat@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Thursday, 13-Mar-2025 01:46:33 JST
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Have got three free months of Paramount Plus via my car insurance, which couldn't have come a moment too soon: Battlestar Galactica has delighted me enough, I feel – can't wait to get back to DS9 and other Star Trek stuff
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Jae (considermycat@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Thursday, 13-Mar-2025 01:46:31 JST
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The final straw was Cally shooting Boomer at the end of S2E4. I literally sat there saying "No, she didn't. She didn't do that." It just felt cynically plot-driven rather than character-driven
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Jae (considermycat@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Thursday, 13-Mar-2025 01:46:30 JST
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Then I read ahead and saw that a bunch of characters are later revealed – gasp! – to have been Cylons all along (including Tyrol and Tigh), and like: nope. If you're going to end up doing that to me, I'm out.
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Jae (considermycat@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Thursday, 13-Mar-2025 01:46:29 JST
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The Star Trek franchise will never let me down with terrible character and plot decisions like that, no sir-ree /jk^∞
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Jae (considermycat@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Thursday, 13-Mar-2025 01:46:28 JST
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Quite impressive how BSG manages to fall even more egregiously than Star Trek into the USian sci-fi trap of "It is the year 4985, and humanity is still organising itself according to the basic structures of the United States Constitution"
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Jae (considermycat@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Thursday, 13-Mar-2025 01:46:27 JST
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"It is the year 4985, and queer people still don't exist. No, not even Starbuck, how could you even *think* that?"
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Jae (considermycat@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Friday, 21-Feb-2025 21:41:18 JST
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@AnarchoNinaWrites Ye gods, no wonder he won, these people are absolute *saps*, the easiest marks in existence
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Jae (considermycat@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Monday, 06-Jan-2025 23:39:06 JST
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@AnarchoNinaWrites But! But! He has “🏳️⚧️ Ally” in his bio! I guess “terms and conditions apply”…
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Jae (considermycat@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Friday, 03-Jan-2025 05:53:00 JST
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Happy new year, everyone. In the immortal words of Enver Hoxha, which have never felt truer than they do now: “This year will be harder than last year. On the other hand, it will be easier than next year.”
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Jae (considermycat@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Monday, 23-Dec-2024 22:02:48 JST
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@goatsarah @james @taylorlorenz Turns out “Democracy Dies in Darkness” was more a statement of intent than a warning
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Jae (considermycat@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Monday, 09-Dec-2024 22:13:49 JST
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Looking for "quiet queer" events, and found a board game night that takes place in London each month. But it's for "women and non-binary people" – which I assume means, as usual, "girl enbies", not "boy enbies". <sigh>
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Jae (considermycat@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Sunday, 17-Nov-2024 23:53:06 JST
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@AnarchoNinaWrites Yeah I read some centrist newspaper writer yesterday saying “fascism was 90 years ago, we live in a very different world” – as if the Trumpists weren’t being *completely open* about their fascistic intent. But like you say: they don’t generally wear uniforms (yet), so it can’t be fascism…
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Jae (considermycat@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Friday, 15-Nov-2024 19:19:58 JST
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On a call with a tech vendor at work, and The Guy keeps talking about “the [ProductName] Activity Centre”, and all I can think of is THIS
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Jae (considermycat@eldritch.cafe)'s status on Wednesday, 06-Nov-2024 19:28:13 JST
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@esvrld Yup. And Trump spending $60m on “Kamala is for the they/thems” ads makes it a shoo-in that the centrists will also decide the Democrats need to definitively repudiate trans rights (sorry, “the more outlandish progressive causes”, to quote one newspaper columnist this morning)