if you're going to tell them to join another instance, or that they joined the wrong instance, you're part of the problem. it's frustrating that the Fediverse just doesn't listen to the issues raised by regular people.
it's getting better (thanks in part to Bluesky putting the pressure on as a "competitor" probably) but I think Mastodon and the rest of fedi should stop listening to FOSS hobbyist ideologies, it's holding the network back so much. Best example is this: Mastodon is making a spec for auxiliary services that can handle things like spam detection, so instances don't have to, which seems alright, but then you have shit like this in the issues:
there's a movie about sentient sneakers that seems to just be fetish content and I swear one of them is voiced by the same VA as Husk from Hazbin Hotel.
Oh yeah, just remembered. I had a friend who tried the Fediverse - specifically Mastodon - and wanted the ability to view every reply to a post, including remote ones that haven't federated. This is actually a good idea, it could theoretically curb a lot of the incessant "reply guy" problems this place has. There have been requests for this.
Except, the people in charge of Mastodon didn't want to implement this, apparently the people who asked for this just got "why do you need this feature lmao?" or "use a third party client".
Both not really good solutions. Both very "Linux user" type of responses. And then the same people wonder why people get fed up with this place bounce off to Bluesky.
@tk meanwhile I'm switching back to Windows for mental health reasons lol. (tl;dr: felt like I was pressured to use Linux which means I'm not having a healthy relationship with it)
every time I see drama over some scraper going haywire on the fediverse or something like GoToSocial trying to block FediDB or Lemmy trying to hide federated updoots I'm here thinking... you do realise how the Fediverse works, right?