It's definitely not just you, researchers have documented the quality of Google Search declining:
https://www.404media.co/google-search-really-has-gotten-worse-researchers-find/
(highly recommend the amazing team of indie tech journalists at @404mediaco )
What your seeking does sound like the right direction . . . though I'm not totally clear on how we get there. @pluralistic has spelled out a number of ideas for a better web.
Personally, adding `site:reddit.com` to my google searching often helps.