One way I cope with the ongoing disasters is to donate where I can to help those being hurt badly by the Trump administration’s actions. Some of that goes to organizations helping the trans community; some goes to food banks; some goes elsewhere.
If your finances permit, please consider a donation to your local food bank. Or consider one of these:
MANNA Foodbank in Asheville, NC
https://mannafoodbank.org/
Second Harvest of Silicon Valley — my local food bank, because you hear about the billionaires and not the many folks here who are at the opposite end of the financial spectrum.
https://www.shfb.org/
Food for People — Humboldt County, California. Cool name for a food bank.
https://www.foodforpeople.org/
Boulder Food Rescue — not exactly a food bank, but a wonderful program. Full disclosure: One of my cousins, Hayden Dansky, is a co-director here.
https://www.boulderfoodrescue.org/