@skinnylatte same with cishet. when i got pregnant with #1, the GOP were already flaunting their fascism by the abuse they laid on the husband of Terry Schiavo (look up Terry Schiavo case). Giuliani was mayor; so we were even advised to get a lawyer just in case if we weren't gonna get married.
so we got married, even with me being at my healthiest, because we were afraid that if anything happened to me he'd go thru that Schiavo hell.