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@meso @mia @aetios @evamik This is pretty male-brained tho, resilience can come from an individual but also through collective connection and resilient networks.
I think men tend to place a lot of emphasis on hierarchies and pecking orders, that's why male collectivity is usually so fucked up.
I always had better experience with gay men, women and trans people in general, as I'm mostly too 'tistic to see the hidden social rules and power hierarchies and consequently run into trouble.