Conversation

Notices

1. Embed this notice
   meso (meso@the.asbestos.cafe)'s status on Thursday, 10-Oct-2024 21:33:57 JST meso

   • miauz genyau
   • aetios
   • Top of the hop (on Mumble)
   @evamik @EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI @mia @aetios yes, and equating femininity with an inability to retaliate or stand up for yourself is more bullshit. weak and effeminate men should just not be weak, effeminate men should stand up for themselves.
   • Embed this notice
     meso (meso@the.asbestos.cafe)'s status on Thursday, 10-Oct-2024 21:36:00 JST meso

     in reply to

     • miauz genyau
     • aetios
     • Top of the hop (on Mumble)
     @evamik @EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI @aetios @mia usually weak and fearful people are too immature to do this gracefully, and overcompensate because weak and fearful people are usually the most aggressive ones, like that gypsy I got into a fight with. he's an absolute pussy lol, you can see the fear in people like that and you should fuck them up when you do because they will continue to make problems if someone doesn't put them in their place
   • Embed this notice
     meso (meso@the.asbestos.cafe)'s status on Thursday, 10-Oct-2024 21:48:08 JST meso

     in reply to

     • miauz genyau
     • aetios
     • Top of the hop (on Mumble)
     @EmoIsDeadAndSoAmI @mia @aetios @evamik how is being resilient towards threats in life male-brained? you can't rely on a community to stand up for you, given that most people in general are spineless and don't have the balls (forgive the metaphor) to stand up for their supposed friends
   • Embed this notice
     Top of the hop (on Mumble) (emoisdeadandsoami@mastodon.bv.linksjugend-solid.de)'s status on Thursday, 10-Oct-2024 21:48:11 JST Top of the hop (on Mumble)

     in reply to

     • miauz genyau
     • aetios

     @meso @mia @aetios @evamik This is pretty male-brained tho, resilience can come from an individual but also through collective connection and resilient networks.
     I think men tend to place a lot of emphasis on hierarchies and pecking orders, that's why male collectivity is usually so fucked up.
     I always had better experience with gay men, women and trans people in general, as I'm mostly too 'tistic to see the hidden social rules and power hierarchies and consequently run into trouble.