Sending children off to the public schools is also a detriment, if you train your own children from very young, you wouldn’t have to deal with most of that angst. Most people don’t think they are capable of raising their own children, but they really are and often grow up with them and when grandparents are helping too, even better.
People have to realise what public schools really are, a waste of money and time and indoctrination centers.